{"id":974,"date":"2008-05-15T07:16:00","date_gmt":"2008-05-15T07:16:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/damau.org\/2008\/10\/nh-van-h%e1%bb%93-tr%c6%b0%e1%bb%9dng-an-s%e1%bb%91ng-theo-ci-d%e1%bb%a9c\/"},"modified":"2019-03-09T09:51:56","modified_gmt":"2019-03-09T09:51:56","slug":"nha-van-ho-truong-an-song-theo-cai-duc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/974\/nha-van-ho-truong-an-song-theo-cai-duc","title":{"rendered":"Nh&agrave; v\u0103n H\u1ed3 Tr\u01b0\u1eddng An &ndash; S\u1ed1ng Theo C&aacute;i \u0110\u1ee9c"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>L\u01b0u Di\u1ec7u V\u00e2n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n<\/p>\n<p>&#160;<\/p>\n<p><em><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Nh\u00e0 v\u0103n H\u1ed3 Tr\u01b0\u1eddng An t\u00ean th\u1eadt l\u00e0 Nguy\u1ec5n Vi\u1ebft Quang. Sinh ng\u00e0y 11 th\u00e1ng 11, 1938 t\u1ea1i V\u0129nh Long. \u00d4ng \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u01b0 t\u1ea1i Ph\u00e1p v\u00e0o n\u0103m 1977 v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng \u1edf th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 Troyes. \u00d4ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed v\u0103n ch\u01b0\u01a1ng trong v\u00e0 ngo\u00e0i n\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 l\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 60 t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m g\u1ed3m truy\u1ec7n ng\u1eafn, ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft, ti\u1ec3u lu\u1eadn v\u00e0 b\u00fat k\u00fd. \u00d4ng v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c s\u00e1ng t\u00e1c h\u0103ng say v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong s\u1ed1 \u00edt t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 l\u01b0u vong c\u00f3 s\u1ed1 s\u00e1ch xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n k\u1ef7 l\u1ee5c t\u1ea1i h\u1ea3i ngo\u1ea1i. \u00d4ng t\u1ea1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ee9ng ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t trong d\u00f2ng v\u0103n ch\u01b0\u01a1ng vi\u1ec7t qua l\u1ed1i vi\u1ebft g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i ch\u00e2n qu\u00ea ch\u1ea5t ph\u00e1c. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#160;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>H\u00f4m nay, ngo\u00e0i c\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi vi\u1ebft, nh\u00e0 v\u0103n c\u00f2n s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta qua m\u1ed9t vai tr\u00f2 m\u1edbi kh\u00e1 th\u00fa v\u1ecb &#8211; nh\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eafc d\u0129 &#8211; c\u0169ng b\u1eb1ng gi\u1ecdng v\u0103n th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft, g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt \u0111\u1eb7c tr\u01b0ng c\u1ee7a H\u1ed3 Tr\u01b0\u1eddng An.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><!--more--><em>&#160;<\/em>   <\/p>\n<p><em>&#160;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>LDV: Gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i kh\u00e1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 b\u1ed9c b\u1ea1ch h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c can \u0111\u1ea3m t\u1eeb ph\u00eda ng\u01b0\u1eddi chia s\u1ebb. Kh\u00f4ng thi\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 v\u0103n Vi\u1ec7t vi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 \u00edt ai th\u00edch n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1edfi m\u1edf trong nh\u1eefng trang vi\u1ebft c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, tr\u1eeb H\u1ed3 Tr\u01b0\u1eddng An. D\u0169ng kh\u00ed quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi vi\u1ebft? <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#160;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/damau.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/bientap\/NhvnHTrngAnSngTheoCic_1342D\/ho_truong_an_1991.jpg\" rel=\"lightbox[974]\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"border-right-width: 0px; margin: 0px 10px 10px 0px; display: inline; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px\" title=\"ho_truong_an_1991\" border=\"0\" alt=\"ho_truong_an_1991\" align=\"left\" src=\"http:\/\/damau.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/bientap\/NhvnHTrngAnSngTheoCic_1342D\/ho_truong_an_1991_thumb.jpg\" width=\"205\" height=\"244\" \/><\/a> HTA: C\u00f4 V\u00e2n, t\u00f4i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u00f4t l\u1eddi t\u1ef1 th\u00fa trong bu\u1ed5i t\u00e0n thu cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i th\u1ea5t tu\u1ea7n r\u1ed3i, c\u00f4 \u01a1i! M\u1ed7i \u0111\u00eam, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111i ng\u1ee7 t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi: s\u00e1ng mai, m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ee9c d\u1eady \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e2y? Hay l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ebfn \u0111i t\u00e0u su\u1ed1t v\u00e0o gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 mi\u00ean vi\u1ec5n? V\u1eady t\u1ea1i sao m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i gi\u1ea5u di\u1ebfm c\u00e1i b\u00ed m\u1eadt trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m l\u1eabn t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh? Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a c\u00f4, t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n cho l\u1edbp th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 b\u1ecdn gay sau t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c hay m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i kinh nghi\u1ec7m nh\u1ecf nhoi n\u00e0o ch\u0103ng?<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0o nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a th\u1eadp ni\u00ean 80, ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh v\u00e0 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng can \u0111\u1ea3m. H\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1eadp ni\u00ean 60, t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9 th\u00e2n ph\u1eadn m\u00ecnh cho ch\u1ecb Th\u1ee5y V\u0169 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n. B\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u0103m 1980 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau l\u00e0 d\u00e2n Ph\u00e1p ch\u00e1nh g\u1ed1c, t\u00f4i ngang nhi\u00ean s\u1ed1ng chung v\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ef1, t\u1edbi nay k\u1ec3 ra c\u0169ng g\u1ea7n 30 n\u0103m. M\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n l\u00e0 t\u00f4i t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn t\u00ean Thi V\u0169 V\u00f5 V\u0103n \u00c1i (nh\u00e0 b\u00e1o\/nh\u00e0 th\u01a1), n\u00f3 n\u1ee1 \u0111em t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111i b\u00e1n rao t\u00f9m lum t\u00e0 la. Cho n\u00ean t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, khi \u0111i d\u1ef1 c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c ti\u1ebfp t\u00e2n n\u00e0o trong gi\u1edbi v\u0103n ngh\u1ec7 s\u0129 ki\u1ec1u b\u00e0o \u1edf Paris, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng d\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n l\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i theo. \u0110\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ef1 nh\u1ecf h\u01a1n t\u00f4i 9 tu\u1ed5i, nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1i t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a h\u1eafn l\u1edbn h\u01a1n t\u00f4i kh\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n<p>N\u0103m 1983, t\u00f4i tung ra quy\u1ec3n <em>H\u1ee3p L\u01b0u<\/em> trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt gay t\u00ean Qu\u1ebf, ph\u1ea3n \u1ea3nh \u0111\u00f4i ch\u00fat t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc t\u00f4i, v\u00e0o n\u0103m 1967, b\u1ea1n t\u00f4i t\u00ean \u0110\u1ed7 Qu\u1ebf L\u00e2m c\u00f3 vi\u1ebft ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft t\u1ef1 truy\u1ec7n t\u1ef1a l\u00e0 \u2018\u2018V\u1ebft H\u1eb1n R\u01b0\u1edbm M\u00e1u\u2019\u2019 do ch\u00ednh ch\u1ecb Th\u1ee5y V\u0169 t\u00f4i vi\u1ebft l\u1eddi t\u1ef1a. Sau \u0111\u00f3, \u1edf h\u1ea3i ngo\u1ea1i, v\u00e0o n\u0103m 1979, th\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i t\u00ean Lucien Tr\u1ecdng, m\u1ed9t k\u1ef7 s\u01b0 th\u1ee7y l\u00e2m c\u00f3 vi\u1ebft quy\u1ec3n <em>L\u2019Enfer Rouge, Mon Amour<\/em> do Seuil xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n. Sau \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 d\u1ecbch ra ti\u1ebfng vi\u1ec7t <em>H\u1ecfa Ng\u1ee5c \u0110\u1ecf, M\u1ed1i T\u00ecnh T\u00f4i<\/em> k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng trai b\u1ee5i \u0111\u1eddi t\u00ean H\u1ea3i trong th\u1eddi gian hai \u0111\u1ee9a b\u1ecb C\u1ed9ng S\u1ea3n giam c\u1ea7m. \u0110\u00fang nh\u01b0 c\u00f4 V\u00e2n ngh\u0129, h\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2y b\u00fat gay nh\u01b0 \u0110\u1ed5 Qu\u1ebf L\u00e2m l\u1eabn Lucien Tr\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 hu\u1ef5ch t\u1eb9t nh\u01b0 HTA, kh\u00f4ng m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh t\u1ec9 m\u1ec9 v\u00e0 t\u1edbi n\u01a1i t\u1edbi ch\u1ed1n nh\u01b0 HTA. T\u00f4i di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 chuy\u1ec7n giao h\u1ee3p gi\u1eefa c\u1eadu trai vi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 anh ch\u00e0ng gay qu\u00ed t\u1ed9c Ph\u00e1p kh\u00e1 t\u00e1o b\u1ea1o v\u00e0 kh\u00e1 \u0111\u1eadm \u0111\u00e0. Ch\u00ednh n\u1eef ca s\u0129 Qu\u1ef3nh Giao thu\u1edf th\u1eadp ni\u00ean 80 b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch m\u00e0 Qu\u1ef3nh Giao th\u00edch. Song song, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 ch\u1eedi t\u00f4i kh\u00e1 n\u1eb7ng. H\u1ecd g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i x\u00e0i x\u1ec3 lu\u00f4n anh Mai Th\u1ea3o v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1edd t\u1ea1p san v\u0103n ch\u01b0\u01a1ng V\u0103n, t\u1ea1i sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u0103ng t\u1eebng k\u1ef3 nh\u1eefng ch\u01b0\u01a1ng \u201cd\u01a1 d\u00e1y nh\u1edbp nh\u00faa\u201d c\u1ee7a quy\u1ec3n <em>H\u1ee3p L\u01b0u<\/em>?<\/p>\n<p>C\u00f2n ch\u1ecb h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i c\u00e1i d\u0169ng kh\u00ed c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi vi\u1ebft v\u0103n th\u00ec t\u00f4i kh\u00f3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi. Thi\u1ec7t ra, t\u00f4i ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat d\u0169ng kh\u00ed n\u00e0o. S\u1edf d\u0129 t\u00f4i d\u00e1m ph\u00f4 b\u00e0y ch\u01a1n t\u01b0\u1edbng m\u00ecnh ra v\u00ec t\u00f4i t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn k\u1ebb l\u1ebbo m\u00e9p th\u1ed1i m\u1ed3m. \u0110\u00e3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00ean gay x\u1ea5u x\u00ed m\u00e0 d\u00e1m vi\u1ebft truy\u1ec7n qua c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt \u0111\u1eb9p trai nh\u01b0 Phan An, T\u1ed1ng Ng\u1ecdc, ch\u1eb3ng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ecdn gay t\u00f4n th\u1edd m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef m\u00ea sa tr\u1ea7m l\u1ee5y. C\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng v\u00ec m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau giao h\u1ee3p r\u1ed3i l\u00ean gi\u1ecdng k\u00edch b\u00e1c k\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i may m\u1eafn h\u01a1n m\u00ecnh, khuy\u00ean h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i d\u1eb9p b\u1ecf th\u00f3i \u2018\u2018x\u1ea5u \u1ea5y\u2019\u2019 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. \u0110\u00e3 l\u00e0 gay r\u1ed3i th\u00ec tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb bi\u1ebft y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u00e1i t\u00ednh sao \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? V\u0103n ch\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 v\u0103n d\u1ecb t\u00ednh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e0nh m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 v\u0103n gay.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>LDV: \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u0103n ch\u01b0\u01a1ng, c\u00f2n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c, \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e3i qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 n\u00ean th\u1ecfa hi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 th\u1ea5p? <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#160;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>HTA: C\u00f2n \u1edf ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1eddi, hai ch\u00e0ng gay kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u00e2u y\u1ebfm \u1edf ch\u1ed1n c\u00f4ng c\u1ed9ng v\u00ec \u0111a s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn v\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng quen c\u1ea3nh h\u00f4n h\u00edt tr\u00e1i c\u1ef1a nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd b\u1ecb d\u1ecb \u1ee9ng v\u00e0 ch\u01b0\u1edbng m\u1eaft ngay. C\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng ph\u00f9ng x\u00f2e b\u1ed9 \u0111i t\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ee9ng oai phong l\u1eabm li\u1ec7t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ph\u01b0\u1eddng tu\u1ed3ng m\u00e0 b\u1ecb thi\u00ean h\u1ea1 qu\u1edf r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c ch\u00e0ng gay \u0111ang \u0111\u00f3ng vai d\u0169ng t\u01b0\u1edbng \u0110\u1ecbch Lu\u00f4ng, \u0110\u1ecbch H\u1ed5 trong tu\u1ed3ng H\u1ed3 Qu\u1ea3ng hay tu\u1ed3ng h\u00e1t b\u1ed9i. C\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng \u1ebbo l\u1ea3 th\u1ee5c n\u1eef qu\u00e1 th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 t\u00ean gay n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn x\u00e1p c\u1ee5c v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh. Gay n\u00e0o m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng m\u00ea m\u1eabu ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 phong \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng t\u00ednh? C\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng g\u1ea1 g\u1eabm ve v\u00e3n nh\u01b0ng k\u1ebb d\u1ecb t\u00ednh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i m\u00e0 chu\u1ed1c l\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 b\u00eau r\u1ebfu, s\u1ef1 l\u0103ng nh\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a h\u1ea1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i l\u00e0 do tr\u1eddi sanh ra, do c\u00e1i \u00e1c nghi\u1ec7p t\u1eeb ti\u1ec1n ki\u1ebfp hi\u1ec7n h\u00e0nh \u1edf ki\u1ebfp n\u00e0y. B\u1ea3n t\u00ednh m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o th\u00ec m\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng theo b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh \u1ea5y, can g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ea5u di\u1ebfm? \u0110au kh\u1ed5 nh\u1ee9t cho nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb v\u00ec b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p trong c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng s\u1edf, v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ee1 t\u1ea1o l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh, n\u00ean c\u00f3 <em>cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng song \u0111\u00f4i<\/em>. H\u1ecd l\u00e9n l\u00fat \u0103n n\u1eb1m v\u1edbi b\u1ecdn gay b\u00e1n t\u00ecnh v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n n\u01a1m n\u1edbp lo s\u1ee3 chuy\u1ec7n b\u00ed m\u1eadt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9. \u0110\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi. B\u1eaft nh\u1eefng ch\u00e0ng gay s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, c\u01b0\u1edbi v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ec3 sanh con \u0111\u1ebb c\u00e1i l\u00e0 b\u1eaft h\u1ecd ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e1i t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t t\u00ean b\u1ea1n V\u00f5 V\u0103n \u00c1i th\u00e8o l\u1ebbo \u00e1c \u00f4n l\u00e0m t\u00f4i b\u1ea1o d\u1ea1n, tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c h\u1eb9p h\u00f2i. Cho n\u00ean t\u00f4i t\u1eeb b\u1ecf <em>cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng song \u0111\u00f4i<\/em>, ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1ng theo cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u1ecdn gay&#8230; cho g\u1ecdn. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i, kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea5u di\u1ebfm c\u00e1i s\u1edf th\u00edch y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng ph\u00e1i t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m chi cho phi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee9c. Ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n h\u00f3a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y v\u00e0 nguy\u00ean v\u1eb9n cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng th\u00e0nh kh\u1ea9n th\u00ec may ra m\u1edbi t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>LDV: Nh\u00e0 v\u0103n H\u1ed3 Tr\u01b0\u1eddng An \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ed1i n\u00e0o? <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>HTA: C\u00f4 V\u00e2n \u01a1i, c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u1ea7y tr\u1eb7c tr\u1eb9o l\u1eafm. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh chia ra l\u00e0m ba h\u1ea1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi: h\u1ea1ng th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 h\u1ea1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 th\u00edch l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh c\u00f9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ecb t\u00ednh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i (les h\u00e9t\u00e9rosexuels). H\u1ea1ng th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 th\u00edch l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng ph\u00e1i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c (les homosexuels), nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3i cho nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng b\u00f3ng b\u1ea9y m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat th\u00ec g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i (les homophiles); b\u00ean nam gi\u1edbi g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 gay, b\u00ean n\u1eef gi\u1edbi th\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 lesbiennes. L\u1ea1i c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u00e1i t\u00ednh l\u1eabn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng ph\u00e1i t\u00ednh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00ednh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i (les bisexuels). Vua H\u00e1n Cao T\u1ed5 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u qu\u00fd phi, cung t\u1ea7n, m\u1ef9 n\u1eef. Nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng ta th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng t\u00ecm c\u00e1c c\u1eadu trai m\u1edbi l\u1edbn nu\u00f4i s\u1eb5n trong bi\u1ec7t vi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 \u00f4ng ta thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u1ef1c \u0111\u01a1n h\u00e0nh l\u1ea1c. Nh\u1eefng c\u1eadu trai nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ti\u1ebfng Ph\u00e1p g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 b\u00e9 c\u01b0ng (les mignons). \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00f4i n\u00f3i theo nh\u00e0 Trung Hoa h\u1ecdc thu\u1eadt gia Robert Van Gulik qua cu\u1ed1n bi\u00ean kh\u1ea3o \u2018\u2018La Vie Sexuelle dans la Chine Ancienne.\u2019\u2019<\/p>\n<p>Trong gi\u1edbi ngh\u1ec7 s\u0129 Hoa K\u1ef3 th\u00ec Marlon Brando c\u0169ng thu\u1ed9c lo\u1ea1i l\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00ednh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i. Anh ta m\u00ea ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef da m\u00e0u v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua hai \u0111\u1eddi v\u1ee3 l\u00e0 Anna Kashfi &#8211; lai \u1ea4n, Movita &#8211; g\u1ed1c M\u1ec5-t\u00e2y-c\u01a1. Nh\u00e2n t\u00ecnh c\u0169a anh ta g\u1ed3m c\u00f3 c\u00e1c n\u1eef t\u00e0i t\u1eed France Nuyen &#8211; lai Vi\u1ec7t, Tarita &#8211; ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ea3o Tahiti, Rita Moreno &#8211; d\u00e2n M\u1ef9 La-tinh. Nh\u01b0ng b\u00e0 v\u1ee3 Anna Kashfi trong cu\u1ed1n <em>Brando au Petit D\u00e9jeuner<\/em> x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng Marlon Brando l\u1eabn James Dean \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 d\u00e2n l\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00ednh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi n\u1ed5i danh, trong th\u1eddi gian s\u1ed1ng \u1edf Paris, Marlon ch\u01a1i th\u00e2n v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec7n \u1ea3nh gia Roger Vadim v\u00e0 nam t\u00e0i t\u1eed Christian Marquand. Ch\u00ednh anh ch\u00e0ng Marquand n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Marlon Brando. Anh ta ng\u01b0\u1eddi T\u00e2y-ban-nha lai \u00c1-r\u1eadp nh\u01b0ng sinh s\u1ed1ng t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf \u1edf Ph\u00e1p, \u0111\u00f3ng phim Ph\u00e1p, n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1eb9p trai v\u00e0 sexy. Christian Marquand c\u0169ng l\u00e0 d\u00e2n bisexuel, sau \u0111\u00f3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi n\u1eef t\u00e0i t\u1eed Tina Aumont. H\u01b0 th\u1ef1c ra sao \u0111\u1ed1 ai bi\u1ebft r\u00f5. Ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m n\u00f3i. Anna Kashfi c\u00f2n d\u00e1m vi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng Marlon Brando c\u00f3 t\u1edbi ba h\u00f2n nang. Khi s\u1ed1ng tr\u00ean t\u1ea1i kinh th\u00e0nh Paris, ch\u00e0ng ta \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f9ng Roger Vadim v\u00e0 Christian Marquand \u0111i Monmartre \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh l\u1ea1c theo ki\u1ec3u \u2018\u2018nga m\u00f4n kho\u00e1i l\u1ea1c\u2019\u2019 do d\u00e2n phong l\u01b0u Trung Hoa ph\u00e1t minh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fat d\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1eadt v\u00e0o h\u1eadu m\u00f4n con v\u1ecbt, r\u1ed3i th\u00ecnh ch\u1eb7t c\u1ed5 con v\u1ecbt \u0111\u1ec3 cho h\u1eadu m\u00f4n con v\u1ecbt si\u1ebft ch\u1eb7t v\u00e0 bu\u00f4ng l\u1ecfng li\u00ean mi\u00ean d\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1eadt. Marlon Brando trong quy\u1ec3n h\u1ed3i k\u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1ea3o th\u1eb3ng th\u1eebng r\u1eb1ng : \u2018\u2018T\u00f4i c\u0169ng c\u00f3 v\u00e0i kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c.\u2019\u2019 Ri\u00eang James Dean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e1o ch\u00ed th\u00eau d\u1ec7t m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh gi\u1eefa ch\u00e0ng ta v\u00e0 n\u1eef t\u00e0i t\u1eed g\u1ed1c \u00dd Pier Angeli, gi\u1eefa ch\u00e0ng ta v\u00e0 n\u1eef th\u1ea7n nh\u1ee5c c\u1ea3m Ursuela Andress g\u1ed1c Th\u1ee5y- s\u0129. Nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 tin h\u00e0nh lang cho bi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ef1c r\u1ef1a c\u1ee7a ch\u00e0ng l\u00e0 t\u00e0i t\u1eed b\u00f4 trai c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 thanh t\u00fa v\u00e0 h\u00f9ng tr\u00e1ng l\u00e0 Tab Hunter.<\/p>\n<p>V\u1ec1 ph\u00eda l\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00ednh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i ph\u00e1i n\u1eef th\u00ec v\u00e0o th\u1eddi \u0110\u1ec7 tam C\u1ed9ng H\u00f2a c\u00f3 hai n\u00e0ng n\u1eef danh k\u1ef9 l\u00e0 Liane de Pougy v\u00e0 Emilienne d\u2019Ale\u00e7on s\u1eafc n\u01b0\u1edbc h\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u1eddi. C\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eeb dan d\u00edu v\u1edbi c\u00e1c ch\u00e0ng trai qu\u00fd t\u1ed9c v\u00e0 c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 ngh\u1ec7 gia Hoa K\u1ef3 thu\u1ed9c h\u1ea1ng t\u1ef7 ph\u00fa. Liane de Pougy \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0103n n\u1eb1m v\u1edbi Ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed v\u00f9ng Galles n\u01b0\u1edbc Anh v\u1ec1 sau tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh vua Edouard VII, c\u00f2n Emilienne d\u2019Ale\u00e7on \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng dan d\u00edu v\u1edbi vua L\u00e9opold II n\u01b0\u1edbc B\u1ec9. C\u1ea3 hai c\u00f4 danh k\u1ef9 kia c\u00f2n l\u00e0 n\u1eef s\u0129 v\u0103n ch\u01b0\u01a1ng. Liane vi\u1ebft 7 cu\u1ed1n ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft, n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng nh\u1ee9t l\u00e0 cu\u1ed1n <em>Idylle Saphique<\/em> (T\u00ecnh Y\u00eau C\u00e1c C\u00f4 \u0110\u1ed3ng T\u00ednh Luy\u1ebfn \u00c1i) v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1n nh\u1eadt k\u00fd <em>Mes Cahiers Bleus<\/em> ( Nh\u1eefng T\u1eadp Gi\u1ea5y Xanh C\u1ee7a T\u00f4i). Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecnh nu\u01a1ng m\u1eb7n m\u00f2i th\u1eafm thi\u1ebft nh\u1ee9t c\u1ee7a Liane de Pougy l\u00e0 n\u1eef s\u0129 ki\u1ec1u di\u1ec5m ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 Natalie Cliffod Barney. C\u00f2n Emilenne d\u2019Ale\u00e7on v\u1ec1 sau k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi anh n\u00e0i ng\u1ef1a ng\u01b0\u1eddi Anh ch\u1eb3ng nh\u1eefng tr\u00ed th\u1ee9c, gi\u00e0u s\u1ee5 m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u0111\u1eb9p trai. V\u00ec l\u00e0 n\u00e0i ng\u1ef1a n\u00ean ch\u00e0ng h\u01a1i nh\u1ecf con m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, nh\u01b0ng r\u1ea5t xinh x\u1eafn d\u1ec5 y\u00eau. C\u1ea3 hai si m\u00ea nhau \u0111i\u00ean cu\u1ed3ng, y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ecfng ch\u00e1y. V\u00ec y\u00eau n\u00e0ng, ch\u00e0ng b\u1ecf qu\u1ed1c t\u1ecbch Anh v\u00e0 xin v\u00e0o qu\u1ed1c t\u1ecbch Ph\u00e1p. V\u00ec ch\u00e0ng, n\u00e0ng th\u00f4i l\u00e0m c\u00e1i ngh\u1ec1 \u0111\u01b0a \u00f4ng ho\u00e0ng ra c\u1eeda tr\u01b0\u1edbc, r\u01b0\u1edbc \u00f4ng t\u1ef7 ph\u00fa v\u00e0o c\u1eeda sau. Ch\u00e0ng n\u00e0i ng\u1ef1a b\u00f4 trai gi\u1ecfi v\u0103n ch\u01b0\u01a1ng Ph\u00e1p n\u00ean d\u1ea1y Emilienne d\u2019Ale\u00e7on l\u00e0m th\u01a1. Do \u0111\u00f3 n\u00e0ng cho tr\u00ecnh l\u00e0ng hai thi t\u1eadp <em>Temple<\/em><em> d\u2019Amour<\/em> (Ng\u00f4i \u0110\u1ec1n T\u00ecnh \u00c1i) v\u00e0 <em>Les Masques<\/em> (Nh\u1eefng C\u00e1i M\u1eb7t N\u1ea1). Ch\u00e0ng n\u00e0i ng\u1ef1a y\u1ec3u m\u1ec7nh, Emilienne d\u2019Ale\u00e7on \u0111au kh\u1ed5 kh\u00f4ng ngu\u00f4i. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 n\u00e0ng \u0111o\u1ea1n tuy\u1ec7t v\u1edbi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 \u0103n n\u1eb1m v\u1edbi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 n\u1eef nam t\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00dd l\u00e0 Baronne Mimy Franchetti. C\u00f4 n\u1eef nam t\u01b0\u1edbc n\u1ea7y c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0103n n\u1eb1m v\u1edbi Liane de Pougy.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>LDV: S\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u00e2n hoan v\u1ec1 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho nh\u00e0 v\u0103n nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ngo\u00e0i c\u00f5i l\u00f2ng y\u00ean t\u0129nh c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 cho ra \u0111\u1eddi nh\u1eefng trang vi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ea7y t\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng? <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>HTA: S\u1ed1ng th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh th\u00ec d\u0129 nhi\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t tinh th\u1ea7n l\u1eafm, c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4 V\u00e2n? H\u1ed3i ch\u01b0a ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi gi\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i t\u00f4i \u1ea5m \u1ee9c trong l\u00f2ng, khao kh\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c giao h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Nh\u01b0ng \u1edf t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t t\u1ec9nh l\u1ef5 \u0111\u1ea5t Ti\u1ec1n Giang, t\u00f4i t\u00ecm \u0111\u00e2u ra m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau thu\u1ed9c lo\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh? Cho n\u00ean t\u00f4i \u0111au kh\u1ed5, tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng, l\u1ea1i c\u00f2n s\u1ee3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebf nh\u1ea1o m\u00ecnh y\u00eau trai, cho n\u00ean t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ng\u1ecf t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 c\u00f9ng ai. N\u0103m t\u00f4i 25 tu\u1ed5i, t\u00f4i l\u00ean S\u00e0i G\u00f2n h\u1ecdc l\u1edbp t\u1eadp s\u1ef1 ng\u00e0nh D\u01b0\u1ee3c Khoa, t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n h\u1ecdc chung v\u1edbi t\u00f4i su\u1ed1t 6 n\u0103m b\u1eadc trung h\u1ecdc. N\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 d\u00e2n gay nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i, nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea3 hai ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n su\u00f4ng tr\u01a1n m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. N\u00f3 gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u cho t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t k\u00fd gi\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ph\u00e1p, g\u1ed1c Ba-lan t\u00ean l\u00e0 Ilya Mustkatblatz. Sau \u0111\u00f3, n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 cho t\u00f4i nh\u1eefng ch\u1ed7 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdp c\u1ee7a b\u1ecdn gay Vi\u1ec7t l\u1eabn gay t\u1eeb c\u00e1c x\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 M\u1ef9, Ph\u00e1p, Th\u1ee5y S\u0129, Phi-lu\u1eadt-t\u00e2n, \u0110\u1ea1i H\u00e0n, T\u00e0u Ch\u1ee3 L\u1edbn qua l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u01b0 \u1edf S\u00e0i G\u00f2n. H\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng lui t\u1edbi r\u1ea1p ch\u1edbp b\u00f3ng V\u0129nh L\u1ee3i (m\u00e0 b\u1ecdn t\u00f4i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 V\u0129nh L\u1ea1c Cung) \u1edf \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng L\u00ea L\u1ee3i v\u00e0 g\u1ea7n B\u1ec7nh Vi\u1ec7n \u0110\u00f4 Th\u00e0nh, r\u1ea1p ch\u1edbp b\u00f3ng Moderne (m\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 M\u1eabu \u0110\u01a1n \u0110\u00ecnh) \u1edf g\u1ea7n ch\u1ee3 T\u00e2n \u0110\u1ecbnh. Ngo\u00e0i ra c\u00f2n \u1edf nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng Continental, nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng Givral, B\u00f9ng Binh tr\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u1ee3 B\u1ebfn Th\u00e0nh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ecdn gay ki\u1ebfm b\u1ed3 b\u1ecbch. Ngo\u00e0i ra ng\u00f4i ch\u00f9a thu\u1ed9c Ngh\u0129a Trang B\u1eafc Vi\u1ec7t, \u0111\u1ec1n th\u00e1nh \u1edf Th\u1ee7 Thi\u00eam c\u0169ng l\u00e0 n\u01a1i h\u00f2 h\u1eb9n b\u1ecdn gay.<\/p>\n<p>Kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u sao, t\u1eeb khi ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u00e0o x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i gay, d\u00f9 l\u00fac ti\u00ean kh\u1edfi t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u1ec7ch l\u1ea1c v\u1ec1 l\u1ec1 th\u00f3i, v\u1ec1 nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00ednh c\u00e1c l\u1ec7ch l\u1ea1c, c\u00e1i tr\u00e1i c\u1ef1a \u0111\u00f3 kh\u01a1i d\u1eady cho t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft bao ni\u1ec1m l\u1ea1c hoan m\u00eanh m\u00f4ng v\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 ph\u1ed3n th\u1ecbnh. T\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i r\u1ed9ng c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00ean gi\u1ea5y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t. T\u00f4i y\u00eau \u0111\u1eddi, y\u00eau m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. T\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 mong c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i vi\u1ebft. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a d\u00e1m vi\u1ebft tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp c\u00e1i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i gay. Nh\u01b0ng ai c\u1ea5m t\u00f4i s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u0111a t\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3n \u1ea3nh nguy\u00ean v\u1eb9n c\u00e1i t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 bao l\u1ea7n xao xuy\u1ebfn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n v\u00e0 x\u00e1c th\u00e2n tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u00ecnh b\u00f3ng nh\u1eefng nam minh tinh \u0111i\u1ec7n \u1ea3nh m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u00e1i m\u1ed9? T\u1eeb khi lao v\u00e0o gi\u1edbi gay, t\u00f4i vui s\u1ed1ng, s\u00e1ng t\u00e1c th\u01a1 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. Ti\u1ebfc r\u1eb1ng khi b\u1ecf x\u1ee9 ra \u0111i, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mang theo \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec, ch\u1ec9 nh\u1edb l\u00f5m b\u00f5m v\u00e0i b\u00e0i th\u01a1 nh\u1ee5c c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec3 khi ra h\u1ea3i ngo\u1ea1i t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n th\u00e0nh thi t\u1eadp <em>Thi\u00ean \u0110\u01b0\u1eddng T\u00ecm L\u1ea1i<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0o n\u0103m 1966, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, t\u00f4i vi\u1ebft truy\u1ec7n ng\u1eafn, th\u01a1, k\u1ebf \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi t\u1eadp t\u00e0nh \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u00e1ch, vi\u1ebft t\u1ea1p ghi. V\u00e0 sau h\u1ebft, t\u00f4i vi\u1ebft c\u00e1c b\u00e0i nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 k\u1ecbch \u1ea3nh &amp; t\u00e2n nh\u1ea1c. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi c\u00e1c t\u1ea1p san B\u00e1ch Khoa, Tin V\u0103n, Ti\u1ec3u Thuy\u1ebft Tu\u1ea7n San, Minh Tinh, Sinh Ho\u1ea1t Ngh\u1ec7 Thu\u1eadt, c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi c\u00e1c nh\u1eadt b\u00e1o Tranh Th\u1ee7, Ti\u1ec1n Tuy\u1ebfn&#8230; H\u1ee9ng th\u00fa \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea9y ng\u00f2i b\u00fat t\u00f4i ch\u1ea1y t\u1ed1c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ean x\u1ea5p trang b\u1ea3n th\u1ea3o khi t\u00f4i ng\u1ed3i v\u00e0o b\u00e0n vi\u1ebft. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m vi\u1ebft c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 gay. T\u00f4i d\u1ec7t ra nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3nh giao h\u1ee3p b\u1ecfng ch\u00e1y, t\u00f4i nh\u1eadp vai v\u00e0o c\u00e1c n\u1eef nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt, c\u00f2n nam nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt tuy c\u00f3 t\u00ean Vi\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 C\u1ea3nh, H\u1ea1o Minh, T\u01b0\u1eddng Ng\u1ecdc, Huy Ch\u00e2u v.v&#8230;, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i m\u01b0\u1eddng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng qua c\u00e1c ch\u00e0ng k\u00e9p c\u00f3 th\u00e2n v\u00f3c c\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u00e1ng m\u1ef9 l\u1ec7.<\/p>\n<p>Bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng v\u1eady, khi vi\u1ebft ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd t\u00f4i d\u00e1m gi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt \u0111\u1eb9p trai d\u00f9 c\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ef1 c\u00f9ng hung c\u1ef1c \u00e1c \u0111i n\u1eefa. T\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 d\u00e1m gi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt gi\u00e0 nua t\u1eeb 80 tu\u1ed5i tr\u1edf l\u00ean (cho h\u1ecd ch\u1ebft v\u00ec gi\u00e0 y\u1ebfu ch\u1edb kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m cho h\u1ecd ch\u1ebft v\u00ec b\u1ecbnh ho\u1ea1n). L\u1ea1i n\u1eefa, c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt \u0111\u1eb9p trai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4i xe duy\u00ean ch\u1ec9 th\u1eafm v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng n\u1eef nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec1u di\u1ec5m th\u00ec c\u0169ng duy\u00ean d\u00e1ng m\u1eb7n m\u00f2i. N\u1ebfu c\u00e1c c\u00f4 l\u1ee1 c\u00f3 ch\u1eeda v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng b\u00f4 trai ng\u00f3 ho\u00e0i\u2026v\u1eabn th\u00edch ng\u00f3 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, th\u00ec \u1edf ch\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1p ch\u00f3t c\u1ee7a quy\u1ec3n ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft, t\u00f4i cho h\u1ecd x\u1ed5 b\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eadp chum \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 c\u00e1i eo thon \u0111\u1eb9p, \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd di\u1ec7n \u00e1o \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111i r\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e8n, \u0111i b\u00e1t ph\u1ed1 c\u00f9ng ch\u1ed3ng. C\u00f2n nam nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt \u0111\u1eb9p trai n\u1ebfu r\u1ee7i b\u1ecb b\u1ecbnh ung th\u01b0 hay b\u1ecb b\u1ecbnh AIDS th\u00ec n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng nh\u1edd thu\u1ed1c men hi\u1ec7u nghi\u1ec7m th\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0110\u1ee9c Th\u00e1nh \u0110\u1ed3ng Trinh Maria c\u1ee7a th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 Lourdes hay \u0110\u1ee9c \u0110\u1ea1i Bi Qu\u00e1n Th\u1ebf \u00c2m B\u1ed3 T\u00e1t s\u1ebd d\u00f9ng ph\u00e9p l\u1ea1 m\u00e0 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady n\u1eef \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 s\u1ebd an t\u00e2m khi x\u1ebfp quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch c\u0169a t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00f4 xem \u0111\u00f3, khi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, h\u1ecd d\u1ec5 c\u00f3 t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng v\u1ecb tha, kh\u00f4ng \u0111em gi\u00e1o \u0111i\u1ec1u khe kh\u1eafc ra bu\u1ed9c t\u1ed9i b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai. Trong c\u00e1c t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ebb \u00e1c. Th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb c\u00f3 c\u00e1i mi\u1ec7ng d\u1eef d\u1eb1n, ng\u00e1p ra kh\u00f3i, \u00f3i ra tro, ho ra s\u1ea5m s\u00e9t, nh\u01b0ng l\u00f2ng d\u1ea1 c\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec1n l\u00e0nh nh\u01b0 b\u1ed9t s\u1eafn, b\u1ed9t khoai. Th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u1ee5 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 thu\u1ed9c lo\u1ea1i ch\u1eb1n \u0103n tr\u0103n qu\u1ea5n, \u01b0a ganh t\u1ecb t\u1eeb c\u00e1i ng\u00e1p ti\u1ebfng ho v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, \u01b0a th\u00e8o l\u1ebbo trong c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c ng\u1ed3i l\u00ea \u0111\u00f4i m\u00e1ch, nh\u01b0ng khi \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh g\u1eb7p ho\u1ea1n n\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng ra tay c\u1ee9u gi\u00fap, an \u1ee7i, \u0111\u00e3i cho k\u1ebb c\u1ef1u th\u00f9 nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n \u0103n ngon&#8230; ch\u1ebft gi\u1ea5c lu\u00f4n! T\u00f4i \u01b0a vi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ea1ch t\u1eadt x\u1ea5u \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 75% l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0. V\u1eady c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 v\u0103n ch\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ecba nh\u01b0 si\u00eau vi tr\u00f9ng g\u00e2y b\u1ecbnh AIDS, kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt lao v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u00e1c \u00f4n c\u00f4n \u0111\u1ed3 th\u1ed5 ph\u1ec9, kh\u00f4ng x\u00f4 n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0o c\u1ea3nh \u0111o\u1ea1n tr\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>LDV: X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i phong ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a Vi\u1ec7t Nam c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 v\u0103n kh\u00f4ng, trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh vi\u1ebft l\u00e1ch?<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p>HTA: \u1ede Vi\u1ec7t Nam, chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i v\u00e0o th\u1eadp ni\u00ean 50, 60 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 tr\u1ea7m tr\u1ecdng. D\u00e2n m\u00ecnh cho r\u1eb1ng h\u1ec5 ai m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i \u2018\u2018c\u00e1i t\u1eadt\u2019\u2019 y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng ph\u00e1i t\u00ednh, m\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea5y v\u1ee3 g\u1ea3 ch\u1ed3ng th\u00ec \u2018\u2018l\u00e0nh b\u1ec7nh\u2019\u2019 ngay. Nh\u01b0ng b\u00ean \u00c2u Ch\u00e2u v\u00e0o th\u1eddi Trung C\u1ed5, nh\u1eefng ai c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng qu\u00e1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng ph\u00e1i t\u00ednh th\u00ec b\u1ecb l\u00f4i ra t\u00f2a \u00e1n v\u00e0 Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i Gia-t\u00f4 xen v\u00e0o k\u1ebft \u00e1n thi\u00eau s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ef1. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng nh\u1edb r\u00f5 n\u0103m n\u00e0o trong th\u1eadp ni\u00ean 90 c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf k\u1ef7 20, \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00e1o Ho\u00e0ng Jean Paul II \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng xin l\u1ed7i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n c\u00e1c Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i Gia-t\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00ean \u00e1n x\u1eed t\u1eed nh\u00e0 b\u00e1c h\u1ecdc Galil\u00e9e khi \u00f4ng ta d\u00e1m tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ea5t tr\u00f2n. Ng\u00e0i c\u0169ng xin l\u1ed7i v\u1ec1 v\u1ee5 c\u00e1c t\u00edn \u0111\u1ed3 Gia-t\u00f4 a t\u00f2ng v\u1edbi b\u1ecdn bu\u00f4n ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eaft d\u00e2n Phi Ch\u00e2u b\u00e1n cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi da tr\u1eafng l\u00e0m n\u00f4 l\u1ec7. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u00e0i v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng th\u00e8m xin l\u1ed7i v\u1ec1 v\u1ee5 b\u1ecdn t\u0103ng l\u1eef Gia-t\u00f4 \u1edf Ph\u00e1p v\u00e0 \u1edf v\u00e0i n\u01b0\u1edbc \u00c2u Ch\u00e2u \u0111\u00e3 \u0111em d\u00e2n gay thi\u00eau s\u1ed1ng v\u00ec h\u1ecd cho r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gay c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00f9 th\u1ee7y l\u00e0 \u00e1c qu\u1ef7 Sa-t\u0103ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecb ti\u00eau di\u1ec7t.<\/p>\n<p>Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh vi\u1ebft l\u00e1ch, tr\u01b0\u1edbc kia d\u00e1m khai hu\u1ef5ch t\u1eb9t c\u00e1i s\u1edf th\u00edch y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng ph\u00e1i v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 v\u0103n h\u00e0o Andr\u00e9 Gide \u1edf nh\u1eefng quy\u1ec3n nh\u1eadt k\u00fd. Nh\u01b0ng \u1edf cu\u1ed1n <em>L\u2019Immoraliste<\/em> (K\u1ebb V\u00f4 Lu\u00e2n), \u00f4ng ta ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i m\u00ed m\u00ed th\u00f4i. V\u0103n h\u00e0o Thomas Mann v\u1edbi quy\u1ec3n <em>Mort \u00e0 Venise<\/em> (Ch\u1ebft T\u1ea1i Kinh Th\u00e0nh Venise). E.M Forster v\u1edbi cu\u1ed1n <em>Maurice<\/em> th\u00ec vi\u1ebft h\u1eb3n hoi v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c t\u00ecnh th\u1ea7m k\u00edn hay c\u00f4ng khai c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt gay. Tuy nhi\u00ean E.M Forster vi\u1ebft cu\u1ed1n <em>Maurice<\/em> khi c\u00f2n s\u1ed1ng, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m \u0111\u0103ng b\u00e1o hay xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n. Tr\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecbnh ch\u1edd ch\u1ebft, \u00f4ng d\u1eb7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00e0 khi \u00f4g ta qua \u0111\u1eddi th\u00ec m\u1edbi cho xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n cu\u1ed1n di c\u1ea3o \u1ea5y. C\u00f2n n\u1eef s\u0129 Natalie Clifford Barney th\u00ec vi\u1ebft l\u00e1ch c\u00f4ng khai chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh ch\u1eadp ch\u00f5a v\u1edbi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0. C\u1ea3 n\u00e0ng danh k\u1ef9 Liane de Pougy d\u00e1m vi\u1ebft cu\u1ed9c t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi Natalie Clifford Barney trong cu\u1ed1n <em>Idylle Saphique<\/em> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u1eady m\u00e0 c\u00e1c \u00f4ng ho\u00e0ng \u1edf \u00c2u Ch\u00e2u, c\u00e1c tri\u1ec7u ph\u00fa, t\u1ef7 ph\u00fa Hoa K\u1ef3 v\u1eabn t\u00ecnh nguy\u1ec7n ch\u1ebft chung v\u00e0o l\u1ed7 c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng. R\u1ed3i khi n\u00e0ng leo l\u00ean 40 tu\u1ed5i c\u00f3 \u00f4ng ho\u00e0ng L\u1ed7-ma-n\u00ed nh\u1ecf h\u01a1n n\u00e0ng 15 tu\u1ed5i c\u01b0\u1edbi n\u00e0ng l\u00e0m v\u1ee3, cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n k\u00e9o d\u00e0i t\u1edbi khi \u00f4ng ta l\u00eca \u0111\u1eddi. L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 Liane x\u1ea5p x\u1ec9 70 tu\u1ed5i r\u1ed3i, \u0111\u00e0nh s\u1ed1ng c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n t\u1edbi l\u00fac nh\u1eafm m\u1eaft theo ch\u1ed3ng.<\/p>\n<p>V\u1ec1 c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 v\u0103n nh\u00e0 th\u01a1 Vi\u1ec7t Nam th\u00ec v\u00e0o n\u0103m 1966, \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0110\u1ed7 Qu\u1ebf L\u00e2m vi\u1ebft cu\u1ed1n \u2018\u2018V\u1ebft H\u1eb1n R\u01b0\u1edbm M\u00e1u\u2019\u2019. Hai ngh\u1ec7 s\u0129 di\u1ec5n ng\u00e2m th\u01a1 l\u00e0 \u0110o\u00e0n Y\u00ean Linh v\u00e0 H\u1ed3 B\u1ea3o Thanh s\u00e1ng t\u00e1c nh\u1eefng v\u1ea7n th\u01a1 \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u01b0 g\u1ea5m v\u00e0 d\u1ecbu nh\u01b0 nhung. H\u1ecd x\u01b0ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 em, l\u00e0 n\u00e0ng c\u00f4 ph\u1ee5 g\u1eedi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e2n dung n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1eadt trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng si m\u00ea. Ti\u1ebfc thay c\u1ea3 hai kh\u00f4ng cho xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n c\u00e1c b\u00e0i th\u01a1 \u0111\u1eb9p kia th\u00e0nh thi t\u1eadp, ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u0103ng b\u00e1o lai rai. \u0110o\u00e0n Y\u00ean Linh, H\u1ed3 B\u1ea3o Thanh v\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a c\u00e2y s\u00e1o th\u1ea7n Thanh H\u00e0. Nh\u01b0ng Thanh H\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 gay m\u00e0 l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi b\u1ecdn gay h\u00fang t\u00f4i m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n gi\u1eefa Thanh H\u00e0 v\u00e0 t\u00f4i t\u1eeb trong n\u01b0\u1edbc, tr\u01b0\u1edbc 1975 v\u1eabn k\u00e9o d\u00e0i cho t\u1edbi b\u00e2y gi\u1edd.<\/p>\n<p>Ra h\u1ea3i ngo\u1ea1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung phong vi\u1ebft chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ed3ng qu\u00ea Nam K\u1ef3 v\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i v\u1eabn l\u00e0 H.T.A. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 Ng\u00f4 Nguy\u00ean D\u0169ng trong quy\u1ec3n tr\u01b0\u1eddng thi\u00ean ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft <em>\u0110\u00eam<\/em>. L\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u00eam T\u1ea1 Th\u00e1i, Nguy\u1ec5n Th\u1ea1ch \u0110\u00e0n qua nh\u1eefng t\u1ef1 truy\u1ec7n d\u01b0\u1edbi h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c truy\u1ec7n ng\u1eafn \u0111\u0103ng tr\u00ean b\u00e1o V\u0103n. L\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u00eam L\u00ea Ngh\u0129a Quang Tu\u1ea5n, em trai c\u1ee7a hai nh\u00e0 v\u0103n n\u1eef l\u00e0 L\u00ea Th\u1ecb Hu\u1ec7 v\u00e0 L\u00ea th\u1ecb Th\u1ea5m V\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111i di\u1ec5n thuy\u1ebft \u0111\u00f2i quy\u1ec1n s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f2i ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ee9ng trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i cho d\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Tu\u1ea5n l\u1ea1i c\u00f2n ch\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ea1p san d\u00e0nh cho gay v\u00e0 lesbian. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1edd \u0110\u1ed1i Di\u1ec7n (Face To Face). Thi t\u1eadp <em>\u1ea6u \u01a0<\/em>&#8230; c\u1ee7a \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi v\u1ec1 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng tri\u1ebft h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 xen v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i th\u01a1 nh\u1ee5c c\u1ea3m chan h\u00f2a m\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1eb9p, sinh l\u1ef1c, tinh kh\u00ed, nh\u1eefng t\u01b0 duy r\u1ea5t nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n. Theo t\u00f4i, nh\u1eefng c\u00e2y vi\u1ebft \u1edf v\u00e0o cu\u1ed1i th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 th\u1ee9 nh\u00ec v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 th\u1ee9 ba \u1edf h\u1ea3i ngo\u1ea1i, trong h\u00e0ng ng\u0169 gay th\u00ec c\u00f3 Ng\u00f4 Nguy\u00ean D\u0169ng b\u00ean V\u0103n, c\u00f2n L\u00ea Ngh\u0129a Quang Tu\u1ea5n b\u00ean Thi Ca. C\u1ea3 hai t\u00e0i hoa r\u1ea5t m\u1ef1c. C\u00f2n b\u00ean ca nh\u1ea1c \u1edf h\u1ea3i ngo\u1ea1i th\u00ed c\u0169ng \u00edt nh\u1ea5t 5 ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u01b0ng m\u00e0 th\u00f4i, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ec7n h\u00e0i danh h\u00e0 t\u00e1nh c\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ef1, c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c h\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1 v\u00e0 gi\u1eef m\u00e3i m\u00e3i l\u00e0 th\u1ea7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c c\u00f4 choai choai c\u00f3 h\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng!<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>LDV: Khung c\u1ea3nh t\u1ef1 do c\u1ee7a qu\u00ea h\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9 hai \u0111\u00e3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho \u00f4ng nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00edch c\u1ef1c g\u00ec v\u1ec1 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng chung quanh \u00f4ng? <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#160;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>HTA: T\u00f4i qua n\u01b0\u1edbc Ph\u00e1p g\u1eb7p l\u00fac phong h\u00f3a \u0111ang bi\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec3n ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9. Phim sex d\u00e0nh cho b\u1ecdn gay c\u00f3 chi\u1ebfu v\u00e0i r\u1ea1p \u1edf Paris. T\u1ea1p ch\u00ed d\u00e0nh cho gay l\u00e0 <em>Gaipied<\/em> b\u00e1n tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp kh\u1eafp th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng s\u00e1ch \u1ed1c. Nh\u00e0 tr\u00ed th\u1ee9c Andr\u00e9 Baudry l\u1eadp c\u00e2u l\u1ea1c b\u1ed9 Arcadie \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m di\u1ec5n \u0111\u00e0n cho d\u00e2n gay. Ch\u00ednh t\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e2y, Lucien Tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u0103ng \u0111\u00e0n di\u1ec5n thuy\u1ebft v\u00e0 m\u1edf cu\u1ed9c tri\u1ec5n l\u00e3m tranh s\u01a1n d\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a \u0111u\u01a1ng s\u1ef1. Ngo\u00e0i ra, v\u0169 tr\u01b0\u1eddng Scaramouche d\u00e0nh cho gay. H\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee5c ph\u00f2ng t\u1eafm h\u01a1i d\u00e0nh cho d\u00e2n gay \u1edf Paris. C\u00e1c anh ch\u00e0ng gay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 tha h\u1ed3 kh\u1ecfa th\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c qu\u1ea5n chi\u1ebfc kh\u0103n b\u00f4ng \u1edf h\u1ea1 b\u1ed9. T\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebb v\u1eeba \u00fd l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai d\u1eaft nhau v\u00e0o c\u0103n bu\u1ed3ng nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh. N\u1ebfu ph\u00f2ng b\u1ecb chi\u1ebfm h\u1ebft th\u00ec t\u00ecm ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o h\u01a1i t\u1ed1i m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat \u0111\u1ec3 giao hoan, ch\u1eb3ng b\u1ecb ai ph\u00e1 r\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i t\u1eeb n\u0103m 1985, b\u1ecbnh AIDS lan tr\u00e0n, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m b\u00e9n m\u1ea3ng t\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ch\u1ed7 h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 n\u00e0o, \u0111\u1eebng n\u00f3i chi l\u00e0 ph\u00f2ng t\u1eafm h\u01a1i. V\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i, t\u1eeb n\u0103m 1985, t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ph\u00e1i ph\u00ec: b\u1ee5ng to nh\u01b0 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i ch\u1ea3o gang hay c\u00e1i thau nh\u00f4m \u00fap l\u00ean, l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 c\u1eb1m \u0111\u00f4i nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i n\u1ecdng heo v\u00e0 c\u00f2n d\u1ebfn th\u00eam mi\u1ec7ng c\u00e1 m\u00e1 l\u1ee3n. \u0110i \u0111\u00e2u, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng v\u00e1c c\u00e1c b\u1ee5ng b\u1ef1 chang bang nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i b\u1ee5ng ch\u1eeda s\u1eafp t\u1edbi ng\u00e0y x\u1ed5 b\u1ea7u th\u00ec ch\u00e1n qu\u00e1! L\u00e0m diet, ch\u1ea1y jogging, cu\u1ed1c b\u1ed9 h\u00e0ng ch\u1ee5c c\u00e2y s\u1ed1 v\u1eabn ch\u1ec9 s\u1ee5t b\u1edbt 5 k\u00ed l\u00f4 l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng. R\u1ed3i t\u00f4i b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c v\u00ec t\u00f4i b\u1ecb ba ch\u1ee9ng b\u1ecbnh nan y nh\u01b0 ti\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, cholesterol, cao m\u00e1u. T\u1eeb n\u1eb1m 1985, ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n l\u00f2ng t\u00f4i v\u00e0 t\u00f4i d\u00f9 \u1edf chung d\u01b0\u1edbi m\u1ed9t m\u00e1i nh\u00e0, ng\u1ee7 chung m\u1ed9t gi\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. V\u00e0o n\u0103m 2006, t\u00f4i nghe l\u1eddi b\u00e1c s\u0129 th\u00e2n t\u00edn t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c d\u00e0nh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 c\u1ea3, t\u1eadp th\u1edf m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 theo ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p m\u00e0 Thi\u1ec1n S\u01b0 Nh\u1ea5t H\u1ea1nh ch\u1ec9 d\u1ea1y, t\u00f4i g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 h\u1ebft b\u1ecbnh ti\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, d\u1ee9t tuy\u1ec7t ch\u1ee9ng chlesterol, gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt cao m\u00e1u. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i u\u1ed1ng thu\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7n. Do \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1ee5t c\u00e2n. Th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c l\u00e0m cho b\u1ee5ng t\u00f4i thon, c\u1eb1m \u0111\u00f4i bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. Th\u1edf theo ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p T\u1ecda Thi\u1ec1n l\u00e0m cho da m\u1eb7t t\u00f4i s\u00e1ng h\u1ed3ng. B\u1ee5ng tuy thon nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i h\u01a1i nh\u00e3o, m\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng x\u1ec7 nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng tr\u00f2n. C\u1eb1m \u0111\u00f4i tuy m\u1ea5t, nh\u01b0ng c\u1ed5 t\u00f4i nh\u0103n nh\u00fam nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i nhau con heo n\u00e1i ph\u01a1i kh\u00f4. Ng\u1ef1c t\u00f4i tuy \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1eb7n nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u0103ng ph\u1ed3ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1nh bu\u1ed3m l\u1ed9ng gi\u00f3. B\u1ecdn trai tr\u00e1ng c\u00f3 c\u1eb7p m\u00f4ng tr\u00f2n tr\u1eb7n nh\u01b0 tr\u00e1i d\u01b0a h\u1ea5u b\u1ed5 \u0111\u00f4i, b\u1ee5ng ch\u1ebb ra l\u00e0m sau mi\u1ebfng nh\u01b0 s\u00e1u th\u1ebb chocolate. V\u00ec than \u00f4i, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 70 tu\u1ed5i r\u1ed3i, l\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 th\u00e2n v\u00f3c r\u1eafn ch\u1eafc v\u00e0 m\u1ef9 l\u1ec7 nh\u01b0 b\u1ecdn \u0111\u1eddn \u00f4ng con trai t\u1eeb 18 \u0111\u1ebfn 45 tu\u1ed5i? L\u1ea1i n\u1eefa, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f2n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c n\u1eefa, cho n\u00ean t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e0nh l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi con Chung V\u00f4 Di\u1ec7m (chim v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng) m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n<p>Th\u1eadt ra, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng bu\u1ed3n ti\u1ebfc c\u00e1i th\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng l\u0103ng lo\u00e0n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u0169. N\u1ebfu v\u00e0o thu\u1edf trung ni\u00ean t\u00f4i v\u1eabn c\u00f2n c\u00f3 s\u1eafc v\u00f3c ngo\u1ea1n m\u1ee5c, bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u t\u00f4i ch\u01a1i b\u1eddi th\u1ea3 c\u1eeda, giao hoan th\u1ea3 gi\u00e0n v\u1edbi b\u1ecdn gay, \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i v\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ecbnh AIDS. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady trong c\u00e1i r\u1ee7i v\u1eabn c\u00f3 c\u00e1i may, ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng n\u00e0o? R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 t\u00f4i xin t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 h\u1ecd ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p l\u00e0m g\u1ea7y, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p l\u00e0m cho da m\u1eb7t m\u1ecbn m\u00e0ng s\u00e1ng s\u1ee7a. T\u00f4i c\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh th\u1eadt m\u00e0 \u2018\u2018khai b\u00e1o\u2019\u2019. nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd l\u00e0m kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3. Thi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea1i sao? Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eb9p l\u00e3o \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec? Khi t\u00f4i m\u1eb7c \u00e1o thun, qu\u1ea7n jean th\u00ec th\u00e2n v\u00f3c t\u00f4i v\u1eabn l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng tu\u1ed5i ng\u0169 tu\u1ea7n. Nh\u01b0ng khi v\u00e0o b\u00e3i kh\u1ecfa th\u00e2n \u1edf t\u1ec9nh nh\u00e0 th\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 th\u00e2n v\u00f3c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u00f4ng gi\u00e0, d\u00f9 c\u00f3 ng\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ea7y, b\u1ee5ng thon v\u00e0 m\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng x\u1ec7 \u0111i n\u1eefa. \u1ede ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1eddi, da m\u1eb7t t\u00f4i th\u1eadt l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef r\u1ea5t h\u00e2m m\u1ed9. Nh\u01b0ng khi t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee5p \u1ea3nh, khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t t\u00f4i v\u1eabn l\u00e0 khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t \u00f4ng gi\u00e0, d\u00f9 da m\u1eb7t ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 v\u00e0i n\u00e9t nh\u0103n m\u1edd m\u1edd \u1edf chu\u00f4i m\u1eaft \u0111i n\u1eefa. Cho n\u00ean t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u00e8m nhu\u1ed9m t\u00f3c l\u00e0m g\u00ec. Tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i hi\u1ec7n gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u00f4ng c\u1ed1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/damau.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/bientap\/NhvnHTrngAnSngTheoCic_1342D\/ho_truong_an_2008.jpg\" rel=\"lightbox[974]\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"border-right-width: 0px; margin: 0px 10px 10px 0px; display: inline; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px\" title=\"ho_truong_an_2008\" border=\"0\" alt=\"ho_truong_an_2008\" align=\"left\" src=\"http:\/\/damau.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/bientap\/NhvnHTrngAnSngTheoCic_1342D\/ho_truong_an_2008_thumb.jpg\" width=\"188\" height=\"244\" \/><\/a> Khi qua Ph\u00e1p, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 40 tu\u1ed5i, h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5 kh\u00f4ng bao l\u00e2u, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat c\u1ecfn con n\u00e0o. M\u1eebng l\u00e0 th\u1ea5y phong h\u00f3a ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u n\u01b0\u1edbc cho ph\u00e9p c\u1eb7p gay l\u00e0m \u0111\u00e1m c\u01b0\u1edbi v\u1edbi nhau. T\u00f4i th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i d\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng th\u00f4i, ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh ri\u00eang, s\u1edf th\u00edch ri\u00eang, t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng ri\u00eang; \u0111\u1eebng b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ed1ng m\u00ecnh. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u1edf Gia-n\u00e3-\u0111\u1ea1i v\u00e0 \u1edf v\u00e0i n\u01b0\u1edbc \u00c2u Ch\u00e2u c\u00f3 l\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea1t nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb n\u00e0o d\u00e1m s\u1ec9 nh\u1ee5c nh\u1eefng ch\u00e0ng gay tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng. K\u1ebb s\u0129 nh\u1ee5c s\u1ebd b\u1ecb ph\u1ea1t n\u1eb7ng n\u1ebfu k\u1ebb b\u1ecb h\u1ea1 nh\u1ee5c c\u00f3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00e2n ch\u1ee9ng. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng n\u01b0\u1edbc v\u0103n minh t\u00e2n ti\u1ebfn, t\u1ed9i \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng ngang ng\u1eefa v\u1edbi t\u1ed9i k\u1ef3 th\u1ecb ch\u1ee7ng t\u1ed9c. T\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t c\u00e1c em c\u00e1c ch\u00e1u gay g\u1eb7p v\u1ea5n n\u1ea1n b\u1ecbnh AIDS n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i l\u00fac b\u1eaft b\u1ed3 v\u1edbi nhau. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i h\u1ed3i 40 n\u0103m v\u1ec1 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.T\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng \u0111a s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb gay c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac khi s\u1ed1ng trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1edbi l\u1ecfng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o \u0111i\u1ec1u, s\u1ed1ng tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp tin t\u01b0\u1edfng h\u01a1n. C\u00f3 v\u1eady Ng\u00f4 Nguy\u00ean D\u0169ng s\u00e1ng t\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 nh\u00e0m m\u1ecfi. C\u00f3 v\u1eady L\u00ea Ngh\u0129a Quang Tu\u1ea5n m\u00e3i m\u00e3i l\u00e0 t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng can tr\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00e1m \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u s\u00f3ng ng\u1ecdn gi\u00f3. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea1i v\u00ec sao c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i, D\u0169ng \u01b0a b\u1ecf ch\u00edn l\u00e0m m\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec. D\u0169ng nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1eddi b\u1eb1ng c\u1eb7p m\u1eaft bao dung. C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng h\u1eafn s\u1ed1ng trong h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1edfi m\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00e1nh \u1ea5y? D\u0169ng y\u00eau th\u00edch v\u0103n ngh\u1ec7 s\u0129 gi\u1edbi s\u00e1ng t\u00e1c l\u1eabn v\u0103n ngh\u1ec7 s\u0129 gi\u1edbi tr\u00ecnh di\u1ec5n n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n lui t\u1edbi th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 trong khi \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ef1 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 k\u1ebb trung ni\u00ean tu\u1ea5n t\u00fa, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft b\u1ed3 v\u01a1i b\u1ecdn gay \u0110\u1ee9c d\u1ec5 \u1ee3t. C\u00e0ng l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ef1 chu\u1ed9ng t\u00e2m linh nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u Ph\u1eadt Gi\u00e1o. C\u00f2n ri\u00eang t\u00f4i, trong m\u00f9a thu cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, t\u00f4i v\u1eabn nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u th\u00eam Kinh \u0110\u1ea1i Th\u1eeba nh\u01b0 h\u1ed3i c\u00f2n \u1edf qu\u00ea nh\u00e0, s\u01b0u t\u1ea7m s\u00e1ch v\u1edf, c\u00e1c h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u00e1c minh tinh \u0111i\u1ec7n \u1ea3nh v\u00e0 ca s\u0129 ngo\u1ea1i qu\u1ed1c. B\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u1edbm xu\u00e2n, t\u00f4i tr\u1ed3ng hoa \u1edf bao l\u01a1n. Trong nh\u00e0 t\u00f4i b\u00e0y nh\u1eefng ch\u1eadu c\u00e2y c\u1ea3nh nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n ngo\u1ea1n h\u1ea3o (bibelots) v\u00e0 tranh \u1ea3nh. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n. H\u1ec5 khi c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3ng r\u1ef1c v\u00ec vi\u1ebft l\u00e1ch h\u01a1i nhi\u1ec1u, t\u00f4i d\u1eebng b\u00fat l\u1ea1i, lo s\u0103n s\u00f3c lau ch\u00f9i nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda, n\u1ea5u n\u01b0\u1edbng m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n \u0103n h\u1ee3p kh\u1ea9u v\u1ecb. \u0110\u00f4i khi t\u00f4i \u0111i\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e0m v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u00e0 b\u1ea1n v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n \u0103n ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng hay nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n \u0103n \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t sao cho h\u1ee3p kh\u1ea9u v\u1ecb.<\/p>\n<p>L\u0169 b\u1ea1n gay c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i sinh s\u1ed1ng \u1edf Paris th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i su\u1ed1t g\u1ea7n 30 n\u0103m nh\u00e0 b\u00e1c tuy\u1ec7t t\u00edch giang h\u1ed3. V\u1eady m\u00e0 nh\u00e0 b\u00e1c ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng \u1edf Troyes c\u00f3 ph\u00f2ng t\u1eafm h\u01a1i d\u00e0nh cho b\u1ecdn gay? Hay c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ch\u1ed7 h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c? L\u00e0m sao t\u00f4i n\u00f3i cho l\u0169 b\u1ea1n tin r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 r\u1ed3i. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u00f4n l\u1ea1i \u2018\u2018th\u1eddi tung ho\u00e0nh\u2019\u2019 c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 vun qu\u00e9n phong v\u1ecb cho v\u0103n ch\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 cho tu\u1ed5i ho\u00e0ng h\u00f4n, \u0111\u1eebng quay l\u1ea1i th\u1eddi d\u0129 v\u00e3ng xa l\u1eafc xa l\u01a1 n\u1eefa. T\u00f4i c\u00f2n nh\u1edb m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1i k\u1ecbch s\u0129 Ph\u00e1p l\u00e0 Jean Louis Barrault : \u2018\u2018\u1ede ch\u1ed7 huy ho\u00e0ng \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng, hay trong x\u00f3 k\u1eb9t t\u1ed1i t\u0103m, \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00e2u c\u0169ng c\u00f3 h\u1ed3ng \u00e2n c\u1ee7a Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0110\u1ebf\u2019.\u2019<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>LDV<\/em>: <em>V\u0103n c\u1ee7a H\u1ed3 Tr\u01b0\u1eddng An \u0111\u1ea7y chi ti\u1ebft, s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp nhi\u1ec1u nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt n\u1eef v\u1edbi t\u1ea1o h\u00ecnh th\u1eadt r\u00f5 n\u00e9t. \u0110\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 v\u0103n gi\u1eef t\u1ea7m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1ecdng v\u0103n, ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1, v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p g\u1edfi g\u1ea5m?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>HTA: V\u0103n ch\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00f4i c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u chi ti\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng? C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1eafm ch\u1edb? T\u00f4i vi\u1ebft theo c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng, c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u khi r\u1ea5t m\u00e1y m\u00f3c, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n suy ngh\u0129 cho nhu\u1ea7n nhuy\u1ec7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi vi\u1ebft. Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecdn gay ch\u00fang t\u00f4i th\u00edch tr\u00e0o l\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u00f3c quan s\u00e1t m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t. Do \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i t\u00ecm nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o, xem c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng, c\u00e1ch suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0103n n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Ai ch\u00ea h\u1ea1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u1ed3i l\u00ea \u0111\u00f4i m\u00e1ch l\u00e0 h\u1ea1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea5t nh\u00e2n ph\u1ea9m. S\u1ee9c m\u1ea5y m\u00e0 t\u00f4i suy ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. C\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c ng\u1ed3i l\u00ea \u0111\u00f4i m\u00e1ch gi\u00fap t\u00f4i kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 v\u00e0 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o, nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt c\u00f3 c\u00e1 t\u00ednh m\u1ea1nh.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00f4i nh\u1edb, h\u1ed3i xa x\u01b0a, t\u00f4i \u1edf chung v\u1edbi ch\u1ecb Th\u1ee5y V\u0169. H\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3, T\u00f4 Th\u00f9y Y\u00ean v\u00e0 ch\u1ecb n\u1eb1m tr\u00ean g\u00e1c. C\u00f4 t\u1edb g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb \u0111ang l\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ee5c d\u01b0\u1edbi b\u1ebfp. T\u00f4i v\u00e0 l\u0169 b\u1ea1n k\u00e9o v\u1ec1, qu\u00e2y qu\u1ea7n b\u00eam m\u00e2m g\u1ea3i kh\u00e1t, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n ng\u1ed3i l\u00ea \u0111\u00f4i m\u00e1ch pha tr\u1ed9n chuy\u1ec7n ti\u1ebfu l\u00e2m. B\u1ecdn t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng hay tr\u00ean g\u00e1c c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00ean ch\u00fang t\u00f4i tha h\u1ed3 m\u00e0 x\u1ea3 m\u00e1y \u0111\u00eda d\u00f3c. Khi c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u r\u1eddi r\u1ea1c d\u1ea7n th\u00ec ch\u1ecb t\u00f4i b\u01b0\u1edbc xu\u1ed1ng, c\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u1ea5t: <em>N\u00e3y gi\u1edd tao v\u1edbi \u00f4ng Ti\u00ean (ch\u1ec9 TTY) n\u1eb1m ng\u1ee7 tr\u00ean g\u00e1c. Nghe b\u1ecdn b\u00e2y \u0111\u1ea5u <\/em><em>h\u00f3t b\u1eeb b\u00e3i m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai c\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n b\u1ec3 b\u1ee5ng, mu\u1ed1n tr\u00f3c m\u1ee1 sa ra. Tao l\u1ea1i m\u1eafc ti\u1ec3u. Nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng Ti\u00ean c\u1ea3n tao l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp nghe c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n t\u1ee5i b\u00e2y. Tr\u1eddi \u01a1i, tao n\u00edn \u0111\u00e1i, b\u1ecdng \u0111\u00e1i c\u0103ng ph\u1ed3ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ec3 nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i ph\u00e1o chu\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e2y n\u00e8. M\u1ea5y t\u00ean n\u00e0y n\u00ean t\u00ecm g\u00e1nh h\u00e1t gia nh\u1eadp l\u00e0m h\u1ec1 l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i h\u01a1n.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>LDV: Th\u1ebf k\u1ef7 g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u0103n ngh\u1ec7 s\u1ef9 n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00f3i chung v\u00e0 Vi\u1ec7t Nam n\u00f3i ri\u00eang \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u00f4ng khai v\u00e0 c\u1edfi m\u1edf h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng thu\u1eadn v\u00e0 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t khoan dung c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u1ec1 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh. Theo \u00f4ng, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eafm gi\u1eef s\u1ef1 \u00e1i m\u1ed9 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng ch\u00fang c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn d\u01b0 lu\u1eadn v\u00e0o l\u1ed1i suy ngh\u0129 b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng h\u01a1n trong nh\u1eefng nan \u0111\u1ec1 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng? <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#160;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>HTA: T\u00f4i ra h\u1ea3i ngo\u1ea1i v\u00e0o n\u0103m 1977. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0i quy\u1ec3n h\u1ed3i k\u00fd c\u0169a c\u00e1c c\u00e2y b\u00fat gay nh\u01b0 h\u1ed3i k\u00fd c\u1ee7a k\u1ecbch t\u00e1c gia Tennessee Williams, h\u1ed3i k\u00fd c\u1ee7a Gore Vidal, h\u1ed3i k\u00fd \u0111\u1ea1i minh tinh \u0111i\u1ec7n \u1ea3nh Ph\u00e1p l\u00e0 Jean Marais m\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f2n nh\u1edb c\u00e1i t\u1ef1a l\u00e0 <em>Histoire de Ma Vie<\/em> (L\u1ecbch S\u1eed \u0110\u1eddi T\u00f4i). Ngo\u00e0i ra, nh\u00e0 v\u0103n Renaud Camus v\u00e0 nh\u00e0 v\u0103n Tony Duvert c\u00f3 cho xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n quy\u1ec3n nh\u1eadt k\u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f4ng khai b\u00e0y t\u1ecf nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c li\u00ean h\u1ec7 x\u00e1c th\u1ecbt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi k\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed3ng ph\u00e1i t\u00ednh. C\u00f2n nh\u00e0 v\u0103n Ph\u00e1p Dominique Fernandez qua cu\u1ed1n <em>L\u2019\u00c9toile Rose<\/em> (Ng\u00f4i Sao H\u01b0\u1eddng) c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea5u gi\u1ebfm khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Quy\u1ec3n <em>L\u2019\u00c9toile Rose<\/em> \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 Ph\u00e1p v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 c\u00e1c n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00f3i ti\u1ebfng Ph\u00e1p c\u1ea3m th\u01b0\u01a1ng cho d\u00e2n gay b\u1ecb b\u1ecdn \u0110\u1ee9c Qu\u1ed1c X\u00e3 giam trong nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea1i tr\u1eebng gi\u1edbi, b\u1ecb x\u00e2m ng\u00f4i sao h\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u00ean tr\u00e1n, b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ecda \u0111\u00e0y d\u00e3 man. L\u1ea1i n\u1eefa, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecdc cu\u1ed1n h\u1ed3i k\u00fd c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 v\u0103n n\u1eef l\u1eebng danh x\u1ee9 Ph\u00e1p l\u00e0 Fran\u00e7oise Sagan. T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t c\u1ea3m ph\u1ee5c b\u00e0 ta \u1edf ch\u1ed7 d\u00e1m chia s\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u1edbi t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 c\u00e1c ngh\u1ec7 s\u0129 gay. B\u00e0 ta vi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 k\u1ecbch t\u00e1c gia ki\u00eam v\u0103n gia Tennessee Williams k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi n\u1eef s\u0129 Carson Mc Cullers. \u00d4ng ch\u1ed3ng b\u00e0 Carson Mc Cullers t\u1ef1 t\u1eed v\u00ec kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 gay. B\u00e0 ta xu\u1ed1ng tinh th\u1ea7n, b\u1ecb suy nh\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea7n kinh. \u00d4ng Tennessee Williams v\u00e0 anh ch\u00e0ng t\u00ecnh nh\u00e2n \u00f4ng ta s\u0103n s\u00f3c b\u00e0. R\u1ed3i \u00f4ng ta \u0111\u01b0a b\u00e0 ta sang \u00dd vi\u1ebfng th\u0103m n\u1eef t\u00e0i t\u1eed Anna Magnani. T\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e2y ng\u00f4i sao \u0111i\u1ec7n \u1ea3nh h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u n\u01b0\u1edbc \u00dd n\u00e0y c\u00f9ng anh t\u00ecnh nh\u00e2n tr\u1ebb tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh s\u0103n s\u00f3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef v\u0103n gia b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh kia. T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n gi\u1eefa Tennessee Williams v\u00e0 Anna Magnani c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t g\u1eafn b\u00f3 keo s\u01a1n. Nh\u1edd cu\u1ed1n phim <em>Le Rose Tatou\u00e9e<\/em> ph\u1ecfng theo v\u1edf k\u1ecbch c\u00f9ng t\u1ef1a c\u1ee7a Tennessee William m\u00e0 Anna Magnani \u0111o\u1ea1t gi\u1ea3i Oscar m\u1ed9t c\u00e1nh vinh quang. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, c\u1ea3 hai th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft nhau. L\u1ea1i n\u1eefa, c\u00f4 V\u00e2n ch\u1eafc c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft qua n\u1eef minh tinh Hoa K\u1ef3 Elizabeth Taylor c\u00f3 3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n gay th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u00f3ng phim chung v\u1edbi c\u00f4 ta l\u00e0 Montgomerry Clft, Rock Hudson, Roddy Mac Dowall. C\u00f4 ta gi\u00fap do h\u1ecd v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t l\u1eabn tinh th\u1ea7n. Khi Rock Hudson ch\u1ebft v\u00ec b\u1ecbnh AIDS, Liz Talor l\u1eadp ra h\u1ed9i gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 d\u00e2n b\u1ecb s\u00e9ro-positif l\u1eabn d\u00e2n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0o th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 b\u1ecbnh AIDS b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ph\u00e1t t\u00e1c tr\u00ean ho\u00e0n v\u0169.<\/p>\n<p>Theo t\u00f4i, nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 ngh\u1ec7 s\u0129 thu\u1ed9c gi\u1edbi s\u00e1ng t\u00e1c b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 tr\u00ean x\u1ee9 s\u1edf n\u00e0o c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i e ng\u1ea1i k\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1edfng ngo\u1ea1n gi\u1ea3m s\u00fat s\u1ef1 \u00e1i m\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh khi nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb d\u00f3 bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd l\u00e0 gay. C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 v\u0103n l\u1eebng danh tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi nh\u01b0 Andr\u00e9 Gide, Fran\u00e7ois Mauriac, Jean Cocteau, Gore Vidal&#8230; v\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 v\u00e0 \u00e1i m\u1ed9 nh\u01b0 th\u01b0\u1eddng. B\u00ean s\u00e1ng t\u00e1c nh\u1ea1c c\u00f3 Tchaikowski, b\u00ean h\u1ed9i h\u1ecda c\u00f3 Michel Ange, L\u00e9onard de Vinci t\u1edbi nay v\u0103n ph\u1ea9m, nh\u1ea1c ph\u1ea9m l\u1eabn h\u1ecda ph\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1eadu th\u1ebf truy\u1ec1n t\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u1ea7n ch\u00fang \u00e1i m\u1ed9 n\u00ean \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p v\u00e0o c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1eadp tan th\u00e0nh ki\u1ebfn ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 v\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i, gi\u00fap h\u1ecd s\u1ed1ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean theo c\u0103n t\u00ednh, theo khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i v\u00e0 s\u1edf th\u00edch t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. R\u00fang \u00e9p, c\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u00e1ch h\u1ecd theo b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u01b0a th\u00edch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 l\u00e0m tr\u00e1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1i \u0110\u1ee8C theo quan ni\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a L\u00e3o T\u1eed, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng theo b\u00e3n t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. O \u00e9p h\u1ecd ho\u1eb7c khi\u00ean c\u01b0\u1ee1ng h\u1ecd s\u1ed1ng theo ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c ph\u00e1i t\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u00e1i t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, ph\u1ea3n khoa h\u1ecdc, l\u1ea1i c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ed9c \u00e1c b\u1ea5t nh\u00e2n. Fran\u00e7oise Sagan, Mae West, Liz Taylor l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng v\u00ec bi\u1ebft th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean theo b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ea7y nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c h\u1eb9p h\u00f2i nguy\u1ec1n r\u1ee7a, l\u00ean \u00e1n v\u00e0 ng\u0103n c\u1ea5m.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>LDV: Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m th\u00eam nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea9y l\u00f9i nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n chia k\u1ef3 th\u1ecb gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh? <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#160;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>HTA: Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7u mong cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i s\u1edf th\u00edch b\u1ea9m sinh, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i c\u0103n b\u1ecbnh do x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u1ea1o ra. C\u00f3 k\u1ebb b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i l\u00e0 do trong ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i g\u00e8nes (m\u1ea7m m\u1ed1ng) t\u1ea1o cho \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ef1 c\u00e1i khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng ph\u00e1i. D\u00f9 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u1eafm v\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u1ea7y, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 cho \u00d4ng Tr\u1eddi hay nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc hay nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m ly h\u1ecdc ho\u1eb7c nh\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc n\u00e0o ch\u1eefa tr\u1ecb t\u00f4i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m ch\u00e0ng gay.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea9y l\u00f9i s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n chia gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i ph\u1ea3i t\u1ecf ra c\u00f3 t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft \u0111\u1eebng ve v\u00e3n c\u1ecd qu\u1eb9t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 gay nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1eebng t\u1ecf ra \u00e2u y\u1ebfm qu\u00e1 l\u1ed1 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f4ng ch\u00fang ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m tr\u00f2 \u00f5ng \u1eb9o n\u1eef t\u00ednh. C\u00f3 v\u1eady c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 so\u1ea1n k\u1ecbch, c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 vi\u1ebft k\u1ecbch b\u1ea3n kh\u00f4ng vi\u1ebft tu\u1ed3ng h\u00e1t hay vi\u1ebft truy\u1ec7n phim ph\u01a1i b\u00e0y c\u00e1i l\u1ed1 l\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ecdn gay ra. Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, b\u1ecdn gay ch\u00fang t\u00f4i m\u1edbi tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi b\u1ecb h\u1ecd v\u1ebd v\u1eddi qua nh\u1eefng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e9t bi\u1ebfm h\u1ecda l\u1ed1 l\u0103ng. Ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. \u0110\u1eebng m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m, c\u00f3 v\u1eady m\u1edbi h\u00f3a gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u01a1c m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n chia g\u1edbi t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a k\u1ebb d\u1ecb t\u00ednh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i. C\u00f2n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ecb t\u00ednh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i n\u00e0o v\u1ed1n thi\u1ebfu t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m bao dung ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u00ec sao th\u1eddi bu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u1edbi l\u1ecfng, kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb ng\u0103n c\u1ea5m g\u1eaft gao. \u0110\u00f3 c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a bi\u1ebft bao c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc, nh\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc, nh\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc, nh\u00e0 nh\u00e2n ch\u1ee7ng h\u1ecdc, nh\u00e0 sinh l\u00fd h\u1ecdc, nh\u00e0 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c h\u1ecdc v.v&#8230; D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n h\u1ecd m\u1edbi kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 c\u00e1i b\u00ed nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a k\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i v\u00e0 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn t\u00edch c\u1ef1c nh\u01b0 sau: \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i b\u1ec7nh, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1eadt x\u1ea5u m\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc l\u1eabn sinh l\u00fd h\u1ecdc nh\u01b0 bao nhi\u00eau tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i mu\u00f4n m\u00e0u mu\u00f4n v\u1ebb c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng tr\u00ean tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea5t n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>LDV: \u00d4ng c\u00f3 tin v\u00e0o t\u1ea7m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1edbn c\u1ee7a v\u0103n ch\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng? \u00d4ng c\u00f3 tin n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta x\u00f3a b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng ranh gi\u1edbi kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng?<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p>HTA: C\u00f3 ch\u1ee9 c\u00f4 V\u00e2n. H\u1ed3i 2 th\u1eadp ni\u00ean 30 v\u00e0 40, v\u0103n h\u00e0o Andr\u00e9 Gide d\u00e1m ph\u00f4 b\u00e0y c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh qua nhi\u1ec1u v\u0103n ph\u1ea9m c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt n\u00ean m\u1ed9t thi\u1ec3u s\u1ed1 d\u00e2n Ph\u00e1p ch\u1eb3ng nh\u1eefng kh\u00f4ng bu\u1ed9c t\u1ed9i b\u1ecdn gay m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u0111\u1eb7t l\u1ea1i v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3n d\u00e2n gay s\u00e2u xa h\u01a1n. T\u00f4i c\u00f2n nh\u1edb khi nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o di\u1ec5n James Ivory th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n cu\u1ed1n phim <em>Maurice<\/em> ph\u00f3ng t\u00e1c theo t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m c\u00f9ng t\u1ef1a c\u1ee7a E.M. Forster, kh\u00e1n gi\u1ea3 Ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ebfn xem ch\u1eadt r\u1ea1p. \u0110a s\u1ed1 d\u1ec1u chia s\u1ebb t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 ch\u00e0ng Maurice do James Wilby \u0111\u00f3ng. V\u00e0o n\u0103m 200, khi cu\u1ed1n phim <em>Le Secret de Brokeback Mountain<\/em> c\u1ee7a Ang Lee tung ra c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1edbi th\u01b0\u1edfng ngo\u1ea1n \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 n\u1ed3ng nhi\u1ec7t. \u0110\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng Andr\u00e9 Gide, c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng Robert Peyrefitte (<em>ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 quy\u1ec3n Les Amiti\u00e9s Particuli\u00e8rs\/T\u00ecnh B\u1ea1n K\u1ef3 \u0110\u1eb7c<\/em>) ho\u1eb7c xem nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n phim m\u00e0 t\u00f4i v\u1eeda k\u1ec3 th\u00ec k\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1edfng ngo\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t l\u1ea1i v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 k\u1ef3 th\u1ecb d\u00e2n gay ch\u1ee9! N\u00ean t\u00f4i m\u00e3i tin, v\u0103n ch\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f3 t\u1ea7m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>LDV: V\u1edbi t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 v\u0103n v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c, \u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean n\u00e0o cho nh\u1eefng ai v\u1eabn c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh an trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang h\u1ecd?<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p>HTA: M\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac hay kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 do ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. M\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, ph\u1ea3i xem x\u00e9t ho\u00e0i b\u00e3o v\u00e0 nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t cho m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t l\u00f2ng ai, kh\u00f4ng d\u1eabm ch\u00e2n v\u00e0 ph\u00f3ng u\u1ebf v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi t\u01b0 k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c. M\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh mi\u1ec5n sao \u0111\u1eebng l\u00e0m h\u1ea1i k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c. T\u00f4i xin nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00f4 b\u00e0y, c\u1ea1n t\u1ecf m\u00ecnh n\u00ean s\u1ed1ng b\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1eebng s\u1ed1ng b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng theo c\u00e1i \u0110\u1ee8C. S\u1ed1ng b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1eddi k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c, ho\u1eb7c s\u1ed1ng tu\u00e2n theo lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00edt khao m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t khe h\u1edf nh\u1ecf nhoi cho \u00e1nh n\u1eafng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng tr\u01b0ng cho s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do, cho s\u1ef1 quy\u1ec1n bi\u1ebfn, cho s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng l\u1ecdt v\u00e0o th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf n\u00ean l\u1ec7ch l\u1ea1c n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea3o l\u00e0 qu\u00e8 qu\u1eb7t t\u1eadt nguy\u1ec1n.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>LDV: Xin tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea3m t\u1ea1 nh\u00e0 v\u0103n H\u1ed3 Tr\u01b0\u1eddng An \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e0nh cho \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng qu\u00fd trong cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: x-small\"><em>*<\/em>\u1ea2nh tr\u00ean: nh\u00e0 v\u0103n HTA v\u00e0o n\u0103m 1991. \u1ea2nh d\u01b0\u1edbi &#8211; nh\u00e0 v\u0103n HTA v\u00e0o n\u0103m 2008.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>L\u01b0u Di\u1ec7u V\u00e2n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u00e0 v\u0103n H\u1ed3 Tr\u01b0\u1eddng An t\u00ean th\u1eadt l\u00e0 Nguy\u1ec5n Vi\u1ebft Quang. Sinh ng\u00e0y 11 th\u00e1ng 11, 1938 t\u1ea1i V\u0129nh Long. \u00d4ng \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u01b0 t\u1ea1i Ph\u00e1p v\u00e0o n\u0103m 1977 v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng \u1edf th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 Troyes. \u00d4ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed v\u0103n ch\u01b0\u01a1ng trong v\u00e0 ngo\u00e0i n\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 l\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 60 t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m g\u1ed3m truy\u1ec7n ng\u1eafn, ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft, ti\u1ec3u lu\u1eadn v\u00e0 b\u00fat k\u00fd.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":655,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"h5ap_radio_sources":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,30,31,133],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-974","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-bien-khao","category-chuyen-de","category-gioi-tinh","category-phong-van"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/974","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/655"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=974"}],"version-history":[{"count":16,"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/974\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":19877,"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/974\/revisions\/19877"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=974"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=974"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=974"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}