{"id":799,"date":"2008-10-14T05:45:35","date_gmt":"2008-10-14T05:45:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/inforescent.net\/damauorg\/2008\/10\/ghi-ch-c-nhn-v%e1%bb%81-d%e1%bb%99c-gi%e1%ba%a3-c%e1%bb%a7a-ti-ti\/"},"modified":"2022-02-23T22:55:12","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T22:55:12","slug":"ghi-chu-ca-nhan-ve-doc-gia-cua-toi-toi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/799\/ghi-chu-ca-nhan-ve-doc-gia-cua-toi-toi","title":{"rendered":"Ghi chú cá nhân v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 (c\u1ee7a tôi) & tôi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nh\u00e3 Thuy\u00ean<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u00e0i t\u1eadp tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi quen tai: \u201cS\u00e1ng t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a anh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 n\u00e0o?\u201d, c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u01b0 sau, t\u00f9y th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m, t\u00f9y ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecfi m\u00e0 r\u00fat t\u1ec9a\/ch\u00f4m ch\u1ec9a c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p ho\u1eb7c c\u00f9ng l\u00fac c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn nhi\u1ec1u ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n:<\/p>\n

1.T\u00f4i Vi\u1ebft<\/em><\/strong> th\u1ebf th\u00f4i, ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh, ch\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

2. \u0110\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh, m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 <\/em>\u0111\u1ebfn sau (ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 – k\u1ebb \u0111\u1ecdc\u2013 l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i vi\u1ebft). <\/em><\/p>\n

3. <\/em>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi vi\u1ebft th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ef1 \u0111eo mang s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn k\u1ebb c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c. <\/em>Nh\u01b0ng 100% h\u1ecd lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 \u00edt nh\u1ea5t 1 \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

4.<\/em> Nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb g\u1ea7n<\/em> t\u00f4i. Th\u00e2n c\u1eadn. M\u1ed9t v\u00f9ng \u2013 t\u1ecfa \u2013 lan \u2013 t\u00f4i. M\u1ed9t thanh \u00e2m h\u01b0\u1edfng \u1ee9ng. <\/em>( Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 h\u1eb9p h\u00f2i kh\u00f4ng khi ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb th\u00e2n c\u1eadn? Nh\u01b0 t\u00ean tr\u1ed9m v\u1eb7t ch\u1ec9 t\u00ecm nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed3ng minh l\u1ebb t\u1ebb – trong khi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 (\u0111\u00e1nh li\u1ec1u ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn) nh\u1eefng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00e2y xuy\u00ean qu\u1ed1c gia). V\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i, \u201c\u1edf g\u1ea7n nh\u00e0 gi\u00e0u, \u0111au r\u0103ng \u0103n c\u1ed1m; \u1edf g\u1ea7n k\u1ebb tr\u1ed9m, \u1ed1m l\u01b0ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u00f2n\u201d (t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef Vi\u1ec7t Nam). V\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i, ai bi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o trong thi\u00ean h\u1ea1? V\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i n\u1eefa, k\u1ebb th\u00e2n c\u1eadn r\u1ed3i c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh xa l\u1ea1).<\/p>\n

5. Qu\u1ea3 t\u00ecnh t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh khoa tr\u01b0\u01a1ng: t\u00f4i h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecdc. M\u1ed9t con s\u1ed1 n\u1edf. V\u00f9ng \u2013 t\u1ecfa \u2013 lan \u2013 t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh n\u1edf. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u0169ng ng\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ee5c c\u00e1i b\u00f3ng \u2013 t\u00f4i m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i l\u00e0 k\u1ebb ( kh\u00f4ng ai kh\u00e1c) khu\u1ea5y ng\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n

6. V\u1edbi t\u00f4i, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc chung chung, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i m\u00f9 m\u1edd v\u1ec1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i v\u1ec1 ch\u1ea5t qua ki\u1ec3u n\u00f3i ph\u00e2n chia: t\u00f4i h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3\/s\u1ed1 \u00edt \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3.<\/em> Li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 tin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng? T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 lu\u00f4n c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 <\/em>\u1edf ch\u1ed7, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb khi c\u1ea7m cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. <\/em>C\u00e1ch n\u00f3i\/ngh\u0129: \u201cs\u00e1ng t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi s\u1ed1 \u00edt \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 c\u00f3 ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng\u201d (quy v\u1ec1 s\u1ed1: 10 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3 100 ng\u01b0\u1eddi) v\u1eeba chi\u1ec1u chu\u1ed9ng m\u00ecnh v\u1eeba g\u00e2y cho t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 ph\u1ea1m ph\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c d\u00e3 man: coi m\u1ea1ng \u0111\u1ecdc <\/em>nh\u01b0 c\u1ecf r\u00e1c. M\u1ed9t k\u1ebb vi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ed9c t\u00e0i. T\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd t\u1ef1 th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 <\/em>tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t.<\/p>\n

7. Trong nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n\/tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ecdc. Nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00f3 v\u1ebb v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh nh\u1ea5t, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecdc l\u00fd th\u00fa v\u00e0 c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh th\u00fa<\/em> nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

8. T\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y qu\u1ea3 t\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u2013 l\u00e0 \u2013 \u0111\u1ed9c \u2013 gi\u1ea3 – c\u1ee7a -t\u00f4i (v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nguy c\u01a1 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi vi\u1ebft n\u00e0o): nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd \u0111\u1ecdc v\u00e0 ham \u0103n c\u00e1c m\u00f3n ch\u1ebf bi\u1ebfn s\u1eb5n, ham \u0103n ch\u00e1o th\u00ed l\u1eddi v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129\u2026<\/p>\n

9. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3. \u0110\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 ch\u1eb3ng chi\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

10. \u0110\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 ai? T\u00f4i \u0111\u1ee3i s\u1ef1 l\u00ean ti\u1ebfng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

11. Trong m\u1ecdi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00fang.<\/p>\n

12. \u0110\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 l\u00e0 ai? L\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ea5y, v\u00e0 l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ai c\u1ea3, l\u00e0 s\u1ed1 v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n, l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb h\u1ebft \u2013 s\u1ee9c – c\u1ee5- th\u1ec3.<\/p>\n

13. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi vi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 ho\u1eb7c gi\u1eadt m\u00ecnh \u2013 n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eafc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c – ch\u1ee9 ch\u1eb3ng l\u1ebd l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f2i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eadt m\u00ecnh???<\/p>\n

14. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh hay ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc ch\u01b0a x\u01b0ng danh. C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 th\u00fa v\u1ecb khi h\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng – ng\u01b0\u1eddi – \u0111\u1ecdc – c\u1ee5 – th\u1ec3 (ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mang tham v\u1ecdng n\u00f3i h\u1ed9<\/em> ai c\u00e1i g\u00ec, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 h\u1ed9 t\u00f4i). <\/em>T\u00f4i th\u00edch nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecdc \u2013 b\u1ed7ng d\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ebfn. C\u00f2n nh\u00e0 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh \u01b0? N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd n\u00f3i h\u1ed9 <\/em>anh \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, ng\u01b0\u1eddi vi\u1ebft \u0111\u1eebng b\u1eadn t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

15. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ai c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft: c\u1ea7m m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ecdc kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3. C\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ecdc c\u01a1 h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft nh\u1eadn m\u1eb7t ch\u1eef th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

16. \u0110\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0 k\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd vung l\u1eddi ra v\u00e0 say m\u00ea v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 duy\u00ean d\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3 v\u1eeba n\u00f3i v\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1edbm l\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

17. \u201cT\u1ef1 khuy\u00ean m\u00ecnh\u201d: Ngh\u0129 ch\u1eaft v\u00e0 l\u1ecdc, \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ed7i s\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee9c \/s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00e1ch t\u00f4i ngh\u0129, c\u00e1ch t\u00f4i t\u01b0 duy.<\/p>\n

18. T\u00f4i t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng t\u00f4i v\u1edbi t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch 1 \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 trong m\u1ecdi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, c\u1ea7n c\u1ea3nh gi\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t, kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t.<\/p>\n

19. \u0110\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c\/kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch l\u00fac n\u00e0y\/l\u00fac kh\u00e1c, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i chuy\u1ec7n \u00e9p m\u00e0 th\u00e0nh. Nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 t\u00f9y duy\u00ean, ho\u1eb7c \u201ct\u00edch duy\u00ean\u201d, ho\u1eb7c \u201cthu\u1ed9c t\u00f9y t\u00ecnh y\u00eau\u201d (nh\u01b0 l\u1eddi th\u01a1 B\u00f9i Gi\u00e1ng).<\/p>\n

20. D\u1eabu sao, t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n tin\/\u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng\/hi v\u1ecdng t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m \u0111ang \u2013 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u2013 \u0111\u1ecdc. Li\u1ec7u t\u00f4i c\u00f3 l\u1ea1c quan qu\u00e1 kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n

21. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0: nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb th\u1eeba th\u1eddi gian. T\u00f4i \u0111ang l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u1eeba th\u1eddi gian. \u0110\u1ec3 va ch\u1ea1m, suy ngh\u0129, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 vi\u1ebft. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng? T\u00f4i v\u1eabn ngh\u0129, trong m\u1ecdi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00fang.<\/p>\n

9\/10\/08<\/p>\n

(Ch\u1eaft l\u1ecdc l\u1ea1i t\u1eeb NK ng\u00e0y 30\/09\/08)<\/p>\n

Nh\u00e3 Thuy\u00ean <\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

T\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi quen tai: \u201cS\u00e1ng t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a anh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 n\u00e0o?\u201d, c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u01b0 sau, t\u00f9y th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m, t\u00f9y ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecfi m\u00e0 r\u00fat t\u1ec9a\/ch\u00f4m ch\u1ec9a c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p ho\u1eb7c c\u00f9ng l\u00fac c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn nhi\u1ec1u ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1004,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"h5ap_radio_sources":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[135,131,22],"tags":[419],"class_list":["post-799","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-doan-van","category-nha-thuyen","category-sang-tac","tag-nha-thuyen"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/799","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1004"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=799"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/799\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":72081,"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/799\/revisions\/72081"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=799"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=799"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=799"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}