Ich wollte meine Tochter nicht so erziehen, wie ich erzogen worden bin<\/em>".(T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con g\u00e1i t\u00f4i nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u2013 hay b\u1ecb- gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c). M\u1ecdi c\u1ea5m k\u1ef5 v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan m\u1eb9- con \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ecb h\u1ea1 b\u1ec7, \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 t\u00f4i- kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi ch\u1ecb b\u1ea1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c- kh\u00f3 l\u00e0m.<\/p>\nC\u00f9ng chung c\u1ea3nh ng\u1ed9 \u0111ang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1eb9, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u0103ng say trao \u0111\u1ed5i s\u00e1ch v\u1edf v\u1ec1 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p d\u01b0\u1ee1ng thai, nu\u00f4i con, d\u1ea1y con, v\u1edbi t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ee9a con. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec hay nh\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0m cho \u0111\u1ee9a con kho\u1ebb m\u1ea1nh, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghi\u1ec1n ng\u1eabm v\u00e0 tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ed9t \u0111am m\u00ea. Nh\u1eefng nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u sinh l\u00fd, t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u1ec1 m\u1eb9 con \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tham kh\u1ea3o. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i, nh\u1eefng b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 mang b\u1ea7u, \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00f4 v\u00e0n trong vi\u1ec5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e0m m\u1eb9, h\u1ed3i h\u1ed9p ch\u1edd ng\u00e0y sinh con.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng trong l\u00fac ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i \u0110\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1ecb tr\u00ed \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb trong vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 con, nu\u00f4i con, v\u00e0 l\u1eafm l\u00fac r\u1ea5t t\u00e0n nh\u1eabn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u00e0 m\u1eb9, t\u00f4i v\u1eabn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef Vi\u1ec7t nam \u201cth\u1ee7 c\u1ef1u.\u201d T\u00f4i th\u1ee7 c\u1ef1u c\u00e1i ch\u1ea5t Vi\u1ec7t nam \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00e0o n\u1eb7n trong t\u00f4i t\u1eeb th\u1eddi ni\u00ean thi\u1ebfu.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 v\u1ec7, trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng xa l\u1ea1 \u1edf n\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u01b0\u1eddi, t\u00f4i \u201cth\u1ee7 c\u1ef1u\u201d nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 b\u00e0 t\u00f4i, m\u1eb9 t\u00f4i, ch\u1ecb t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 truy\u1ec1n l\u1ea1i qua h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i mang theo trong h\u00e0nh l\u00fd tinh th\u1ea7n, \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 to\u00e0n h\u1ea3o.<\/p>\n
C\u00f3 l\u1ebd hai \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u00e3 theo t\u00f4i trong su\u1ed1t h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh xa nh\u00e0: V\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p cao th\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef VN theo n\u1ec1 n\u1ebfp gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng chi\u1ebfu s\u00e1ng t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n t\u00f4i trong nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea5t l\u1ea1 – nh\u1edb nh\u00e0 l\u00e0 nh\u1edb n\u1ed3i c\u01a1m c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u00f4i n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a hay ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng, nh\u0103n nh\u00f3 v\u1edbi m\u1eb9, nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ee9c ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn ch\u1ecbu th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u1ecbu kh\u00f3 c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 qua bao th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 – v\u00e0 song song v\u1edbi v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p \u1ea5y, tri th\u1ee9c t\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb gia t\u00e0i t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng T\u00e2y ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a khoa h\u1ecdc trong th\u1eddi gian h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y, trong \u0111\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng nam n\u1eef tr\u00ean ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eb7p kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m khai s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a tri\u1ebft l\u00fd Ph\u1eadt gi\u00e1o.<\/p>\n
Th\u00eam m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t may, b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u1ea5y, s\u1ef1 t\u00ecm t\u00f2i nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1o Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 cho t\u00f4i nhi\u1ec1u t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh th\u00e2m \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Trong kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian chu\u1ea7n b\u1ecb sinh con, t\u00f4i v\u1eabn \u0111i d\u1ea1y m\u00f4n tri\u1ebft h\u1ecdc so s\u00e1nh v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn c\u00e1c kho\u00e1 h\u1ecdc Thi\u1ec1n cho sinh vi\u00ean \u0110\u1ee9c. \u0110\u00e2y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9 qu\u00fd b\u00e1u trao \u0111\u1ed5i s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1ec1 nh\u00e2n sinh quan \u0110\u00f4ng-T\u00e2y. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi t\u00f4i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng trong trung t\u00e2m Giao l\u01b0u \u0110\u1ee9c \u00c1 do t\u00f4i c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0110\u1ee9c v\u00e0 \u00c1 ch\u00e2u th\u00e0nh l\u1eadp hai n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi sinh con. M\u1ed9t trung t\u00e2m l\u1ea5y Thi\u1ec1n l\u00e0m c\u01a1 s\u1edf tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u1ee3 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i l\u00e0m m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch.<\/p>\n
T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1ea5y l\u00e0m cho t\u00f4i kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i \u0110\u1ee9c trong c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ee3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n n\u00e0y, nh\u1edd h\u1ecd m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng thi\u00ean ki\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 th\u00e2n ph\u1eadn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 \u0111i tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ecb, ng\u01b0\u1eddi con.<\/p>\n
C\u00f3 l\u1ebd ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u201cl\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef\u201d \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ea7y tr\u00f2n \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ebf nh\u01b0 trong th\u1eddi gian s\u1eafp s\u1eeda l\u00e0m m\u1eb9. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi ch\u1ea3y b\u1eebng trong th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ea1 k\u1ef3. Ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1c quan v\u00e0 h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ebf. M\u1ecdi bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n, u\u1ec3 o\u1ea3i, nh\u1eefng nghi v\u1ea5n, nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n hi\u1ec7n sinh, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f4i khi tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t nh\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ed7 cho s\u1ef1 h\u0103ng h\u00e1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi.<\/p>\n
Sau ba th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea3o l\u1ed9n v\u00ec c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i, nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ng sau t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y s\u1ee9c l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u0103ng g\u1ea5p \u0111\u00f4i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i thu\u1ed1c b\u1ed5 d\u01b0\u1ee1ng n\u00e0o. Nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111au y\u1ebfu kh\u1eafc kho\u1ea3i v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c c\u0169ng bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u t\u1ea1i c\u00e1c th\u01b0 vi\u1ec7n qu\u1ed1c gia ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7n, t\u00f4i \u0111i Paris \u0111\u1ec3 th\u0103m th\u01b0 vi\u1ec7n qu\u1ed1c gia t\u00ecm t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u cho \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i \u0111ang kh\u1ea3o c\u1ee9u, m\u00e0 t\u1ef1a nh\u01b0 \u0111i d\u1ea1o trong v\u01b0\u1eddn. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ecdc t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u h\u00e0ng gi\u1edd m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ecfi m\u1ec7t. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 con t\u00f4i sau n\u00e0y m\u00ea \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch h\u01a1n b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec ch\u0103ng?<\/p>\n
Tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 l\u1ea1i Muenchen, t\u00f4i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn l\u1edbp ng\u1ed3i Thi\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7n ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9, cho \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eadn ng\u00e0y sinh con.<\/p>\n
Sau n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, con t\u00f4i \u201cth\u01b0\u01a1ng Ph\u1eadt\u201d trong t\u1ef1 t\u00ednh b\u1ea9m sinh c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 m\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i kh\u1ed5 c\u00f4ng u\u1ed1n n\u1eafn hay r\u0103n d\u1ea1y, ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o c\u00f3 l\u1ebd c\u0169ng do trong th\u1eddi gian mang thai, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y v\u1ec1 Ph\u1eadt h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 ng\u1ed3i Thi\u1ec1n kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ngh\u1ec9 …. Ngay c\u1ea3 hai tu\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi sanh, b\u00e1c s\u0129 c\u1ea5m kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng nhi\u1ec1u, t\u00f4i l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng th\u00ec gi\u1edd ngh\u1ec9 d\u1ea1y \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n t\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u1ea5u \u0103n theo y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n \u0110\u1ee9c. L\u1ea1 thay sau n\u00e0y Mai Lan c\u0169ng th\u00edch xem nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c bi\u1ec3u di\u1ec5n n\u1ea5u \u0103n v\u00e0 c\u0169ng th\u00edch n\u1ea5u c\u00e1c m\u00f3n \u0103n nh\u01b0 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 b\u00e0.<\/p>\n
Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u00e0y sanh m\u1ed9t h\u00f4m, t\u00f4i c\u00f2n ng\u1ed3i Thi\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1edbi sinh vi\u00ean t\u1ea1i Trung T\u00e2m Giao L\u01b0u \u0110\u1ee9c \u00c1.<\/p>\n
Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u00e0, m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 ch\u1ecb b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh, \u1edf n\u01a1i \u0111\u1ea5t l\u1ea1, t\u00f4i t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi th\u00eam kinh nghi\u1ec7m trong l\u00fac chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb sinh con.<\/p>\n
Nh\u1eefng trao \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00e0y cho ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u00f5 h\u01a1n, t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng t\u00e2m sinh l\u00fd c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 trong l\u00fac mang thai \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00f4ng \u00edt \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi con. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9c \u0103n, th\u1ee9c u\u1ed1ng, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gi\u1eef \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng tinh th\u1ea7n qu\u00e2n b\u00ecnh trong l\u00fac mang thai \u0111\u1ec3 \u201cnh\u1eafn g\u1eedi\u201c v\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2 v\u1edbi b\u00e0o thai c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, h\u1ea7u t\u1ea1o m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111i\u1ec7u sau n\u00e0y. T\u00f4i c\u00f2n nh\u1edb, theo l\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn trong s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u00e1c s\u0129 Dr M. Stellmann, m\u1ed9t b\u00e1c s\u0129 ti\u00ean ti\u1ebfn theo tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e1i \u201cnh\u00e2n t\u00ednh h\u1ecdc,\u201d- Anthroposophie-<\/em> do R. Steiner kh\u1edfi x\u01b0\u1edbng, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf c\u00f4ng \u0111i t\u00ecm v\u1ea3i l\u1ee5a m\u00e0u xanh da tr\u1eddi v\u00e0 m\u00e0u \u0111\u1ecf, m\u00e0 theo s\u00e1ch, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u00e0u c\u1ee7a b\u00e0o thai, \u0111em v\u1ec1 h\u00ec h\u1ee5c t\u1ef1 may l\u1ea5y t\u1ea5m m\u00e0n v\u00e2y quanh n\u00f4i c\u1ee7a con. Theo quan ni\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e1i n\u00e0y, \u0111\u1ee9a con khi m\u1edbi m\u1edf m\u1eaft ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi, s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb gi\u1eadt m\u00ecnh ho\u1ea3ng s\u1ee3 n\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c va ch\u1ea1m v\u1edbi m\u00e0u s\u1eafc m\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u201cnghe,\u201d \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cs\u1edd\u201d trong th\u1eddi gian c\u00f2n n\u1eb1m trong b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9.<\/p>\nC\u0169ng th\u1ebf, thay v\u00ec s\u1eafm m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i n\u00f4i theo ki\u1ec3u T\u00e2y ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, \u0111\u1ea7y ti\u1ec7n nghi m\u00e0ng m\u00f9ng hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, t\u00f4i t\u00ecm cho b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i n\u00f4i b\u1eb1ng tre, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i n\u00f4i Vi\u1ec7t nam y nh\u01b0 \u1edf l\u00e0ng qu\u00ea, bu\u1ed9c b\u1ed1n tao n\u00f4i. Ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edd anh b\u1ea1n \u0110\u1ee9c \u1edf c\u00f9ng nh\u00e0 h\u00ec h\u1ee5c treo t\u1eeb tr\u1ea7n nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 ru con. D\u1ea1o \u1ea5y, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ebfn th\u0103m, ai c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00e0o xem \u201cc\u1ea3nh t\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u1ea1\u201d n\u00e0y: m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i n\u00f4i tre Vi\u1ec7t nam \u0111ong \u0111\u01b0a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 ng\u1ee7 ngon l\u00e0nh trong n\u00f4i gi\u1eefa gian ph\u00f2ng T\u00e2y \u00c2u.<\/p>\n
Theo nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a b\u00e1c s\u0129 Stellmann – t\u00f4i vui m\u1eebng v\u00ec \u00f4ng n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e1c kinh nghi\u1ec7m ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t nam x\u01b0a- \u0111\u1ee9a con m\u1edbi l\u1ecdt l\u00f2ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cru\u201c trong c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u1ed3ng b\u1ec1nh nh\u01b0 khi c\u00f2n n\u1eb1m trong b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9. Ru con l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch d\u1eabn d\u1eaft \u00eam \u00e1i nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 l\u00e0m quen v\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng gian th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. Cho n\u00ean, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9a con kh\u1ecfi b\u1ecb \u201cs\u1ed1c\u201c t\u1eeb c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c che ch\u1edf ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n trong b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9, c\u1ea7n tr\u00e1nh c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nh\u01b0 b\u1ecb l\u00f4i ra, qu\u0103ng ra tr\u1ea7n tru\u1ed3ng v\u00e0o th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ph\u0169 ph\u00e0ng, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh, g\u00e2y n\u00ean s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i lo \u00e2u trong v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9. V\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ru con trong c\u0103n nh\u00e0 T\u00e2y v\u00e0 … l\u1eddi ru \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0 l\u1eddi ru m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe khi l\u1ecdt l\u00f2ng: \u201eRu em cho th\u00e9t cho mu\u1ed3i, \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1eb9 \u0111i ch\u1ee3 mua v\u00f4i \u0103n tr\u1ea7u…\u201cRu em cho \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0ng H\u1ed3, em mua tr\u00e1i m\u00edt em b\u1ed3 tr\u00e1i th\u01a1m\u201c gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfng xi l\u00f4 xi la xa l\u1ea1 \u0111ang bao quanh.<\/p>\n
S\u00e1ch v\u1edf th\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u, l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u0169ng l\u1eafm. T\u1eeb nh\u1eefng th\u1eadp ni\u00ean 60, 70, 80 c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1edbi vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, t\u1eeb n\u1ed9i tr\u1ee3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00f4ng nh\u00e2n, th\u01b0 k\u00fd, nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o, k\u1ef9 s\u01b0, gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c \u2026 c\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u, vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i con b\u1eb1ng s\u1eefa b\u00f2 tho\u1ea1t ti\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 tri\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ec3 \u1edf c\u00e1c t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef trung l\u01b0u, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u1edf th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1. Hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m th\u00ec gi\u1edd, c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c, s\u1ee9c kho\u1ebb cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 cao. H\u01a1n th\u1ebf n\u1eefa c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 s\u1eefa h\u1ed9p \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4n ngoan nh\u1eafm y\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi phu n\u1eef khi qu\u1ea3ng c\u00e1o nu\u00f4i con b\u1eb1ng s\u1eefa b\u00f2, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00f2ng ng\u1ef1c ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00f9ng l\u00fac v\u1edbi phong tr\u00e0o gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef t\u1ea1i \u00c2u ch\u00e2u v\u00e0 tr\u00e0o l\u01b0u tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean, v\u1edbi kinh nghi\u1ec7m truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c trong vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i con b\u1eb1ng s\u1eefa b\u00f2 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111em ra th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 s\u1eeda b\u00f2 kh\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng s\u1eeda m\u1eb9 v\u00ec thi\u1ebfu ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1ng. Cho con b\u00fa b\u00ecnh s\u1eefa kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m th\u00ec gi\u1edd m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i b\u00ecnh s\u1eeda ph\u1ea3i \u0111em theo nh\u1eefng l\u00fac \u0111i xa g\u00e2y nhi\u1ec1u phi\u1ec1n to\u00e1i h\u01a1n b\u1ea7u v\u00fa m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n c\u1eadn k\u1ec1 v\u1edbi con. S\u1ef1 \u00f4 nhi\u1ec5m m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 m\u00f4i sinh \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00ean th\u1ee9c \u0103n gia s\u00fac v\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng dinh d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u1ed1t. Tr\u00ean ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n t\u00e2m l\u00fd, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i b\u1eb1ng s\u1eefa b\u00f2 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu h\u01a1i \u1ea5m \u00e1p, tr\u00ecu m\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a da th\u1ecbt ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9. Th\u00f3i quen ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o b\u00ecnh s\u1eefa v\u00f4 h\u1ed3n s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a con, \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c thi\u1ebfu th\u1ed1n t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng, c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, thi\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 tin v\u1ec1 sau\u2026<\/p>\n
Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i tri\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean m\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 b\u1ed5 \u00edch nh\u1ea5t cho \u0111\u1ee9a con \u2026 v\u1edbi t\u01b0 th\u1ebf h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t t\u00edn \u0111\u1ed3 \u2026 v\u00ec con v\u00e0 cho con.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0o th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m \u1ea5y, phong tr\u00e0o nu\u00f4i con b\u1eb1ng s\u1eefa m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 cao v\u00e0 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c c\u00e1ch t\u00e2n. Nu\u00f4i con b\u1eb1ng s\u1eefa m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch nu\u00f4i con t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t. S\u1eefa m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 d\u00f2ng s\u1eefa hi\u1ec1n l\u00e0nh nh\u1ea5t, b\u1ed5 nh\u1ea5t, tinh khi\u1ebft nh\u1ea5t trong t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c th\u1ee9 s\u1eefa, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng gi\u1ecdt s\u1eefa \u0111\u1eadm \u0111\u1eb7c khi con v\u1eeba m\u1edbi l\u1ecdt l\u00f2ng, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng gi\u1ecdt s\u1eefa mang s\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0nh nh\u1ea5t cho b\u00e9 s\u01a1 sinh. S\u1eefa m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m dinh d\u01b0\u1ee1ng kinh t\u1ebf, ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m th\u1eddi gian (kh\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i t\u1ed1n c\u00f4ng h\u00e2m n\u00f3ng). C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i trong th\u1eadp ni\u00ean 80, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u201em\u1edbi\u201c t\u00ecm l\u1ea1i n\u00e9t \u0111\u1eb9p ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ngay trong c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh cho con b\u00fa m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u1ecb cho l\u00e0 c\u1ed5 h\u1ee7.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n g\u00e1i t\u00f4i, Christine, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1ch cho con b\u00fa. T\u00f4i ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y theo tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n theo suy lu\u1eadn. C\u00f3 g\u00ec t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 nh\u01b0 nhi\u00ean h\u01a1n chuy\u1ec7n m\u1eb9 cho con b\u00fa? Khi t\u1ec9nh gi\u1ea5c sau cu\u1ed9c ph\u1eabu thu\u1eadt c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1nh thu\u1ed1c m\u00ea, vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0 n\u1eb7n nh\u1eefng gi\u1ecdt s\u1eefa \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean cho con b\u00fa, r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i ch\u00ecm v\u00e0o c\u01a1n m\u00ea. Trong m\u00ea, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac tr\u00e0n tr\u1ec1 d\u00f9 v\u1ebft c\u1eaft da th\u1ecbt r\u00e1t \u0111au.<\/p>\n
C\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t nam theo truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m kh\u00e1c h\u01a1n t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng theo ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p h\u01a1 h\u1ea5p v\u00fa s\u1eefa b\u1eb1ng l\u00e1 tr\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t nam m\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n theo c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean: cho con b\u00fa s\u1eefa c\u00f2n t\u01b0\u01a1i, m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 s\u1eefa c\u00f2n s\u1ed1ng, v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201ch\u01a1 h\u00e1p\u201d theo c\u00e1ch c\u1ed5 truy\u1ec1n. Ai ng\u1edd s\u1eefa s\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i ch\u1ee9a nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1ea5t dinh d\u01b0\u1ee1ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 kh\u00e1ng t\u1ed1 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho b\u00e9 s\u01a1 sinh v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 h\u00ecnh d\u00e1ng ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 con b\u00f2 b\u1ecb v\u1eaft s\u1eefa!<\/p>\n
Khi cho con b\u00fa, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c th\u1ee9c \u0103n, \u00fd th\u1ee9c h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi th\u1ee9c u\u1ed1ng. Cho con b\u00fa t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi nhi\u1ec1u ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 l\u1eafm khi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt.<\/p>\n
Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o th\u1eddi kho\u00e1 bi\u1ec3u s\u00e1ng tr\u01b0a chi\u1ec1u m\u00e0 t\u00f9y l\u00f2ng, l\u00f2ng m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng con. S\u1ef1 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u201clu\u00f4n \u1edf \u0111\u00f3\u201d cho con kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0m cho con h\u01b0- b\u00e9 s\u01a1 sinh th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao m\u00e0 h\u01b0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c?- m\u00e0 l\u00e0 t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u kh\u00f4ng l\u1eddi cho con c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao b\u1ecdc, kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb b\u1ecf r\u01a1i.<\/p>\n
Trong nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u1ea5m \u00e1p x\u00e1c th\u1ecbt th\u1eadt l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd t\u00f4i h\u01a1n c\u00f4 b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u1edf t\u00ednh nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i cho con b\u00fa cho \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac n\u00e0o n\u00f3\u201d\u0111\u00e3 th\u00e8m\u201d m\u1edbi th\u00f4i. C\u00f3 ngh\u0129a b\u00fa h\u00e0ng gi\u1edd cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi h\u1ebft s\u1eefa trong th\u1eddi kh\u1eafc \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n
Mai Lan \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p b\u00fa m\u1eb9 h\u00e0ng gi\u1edd, v\u00ec th\u1ebf em kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1eafm v\u00fa cao su m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u00e9t v\u00e0o mi\u1ec7ng con \u0111\u1ec3 con kh\u1ecfi kh\u00f3c \u0111\u00f2i. M\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 v\u00fa gi\u1ea3 v\u00f4 c\u1ea3m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u01b0a cho b\u00e9 Mai Lan l\u00e0 b\u00e9 phun ra ngay. Em l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ed1 lu\u00f4n b\u1ed3ng \u1eb5m, thay t\u00e3, \u00f4m \u1ea5p, ru cho ng\u1ee7 \u2026. Nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, h\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 em r\u1ea5t b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2ng v\u00e0 \u2026 th\u00edch th\u00fa. Em kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3c nh\u00e8 m\u00e0 lu\u00f4n c\u01b0\u1eddi vui bi b\u00f4, ng\u1ee7 y\u00ean v\u00e0 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, ph\u00e1t \u00e2m r\u00f5 v\u00e0 s\u1edbm so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb em kh\u00e1c. \u0110\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0110\u1ee9c th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n \u00eam \u0111\u1ec1m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 trong nh\u00e0. H\u1ecd ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean h\u01a1n n\u1eefa l\u00e0 em \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u1ee7 chung v\u1edbi ba m\u1eb9 ban \u0111\u00eam, n\u1eb1m n\u00f4i ban ng\u00e0y m\u00e0 th\u00f4i, cho n\u00ean khi \u0111\u00f2i b\u00fa n\u1eeda khuya l\u00e0 c\u00f3 ngay.<\/p>\n
\u00c1o qu\u1ea7n, \u201c\u1ed5 n\u1eb1m\u201d cho b\u00e9 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i cho c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111ang chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb sinh n\u1edf. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i t\u00ecm mua cho \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea5m n\u1ec7m l\u00f3t n\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ecdc b\u1eb1ng v\u1ea3i b\u00f4ng m\u1ec1m, n\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ec7n b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t l\u1edbp l\u00f4ng ng\u1ef1a \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea9y s\u1ea1ch, b\u1ecdc ngo\u00e0i b\u1eb1ng bao s\u1ee3i v\u00e0i c\u00f4 t\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m m\u1ec1n, c\u00f3 ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng tho\u00e1ng m\u00e1t ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng b\u00ed b\u00edt nh\u01b0 n\u1ec7m ni l\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m h\u1ea7m da. M\u00f9a l\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eb9 cho m\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i \u00e1o b\u1eb1ng s\u1ee3i len c\u1eebu nguy\u00ean ch\u1ea5t, r\u1ea5t \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, kh\u00f4ng xa x\u1ec9. Xu\u00e2n h\u1ea1 th\u00ec m\u1eb7c \u00e1o s\u1ee3i b\u00f4ng (coton) hay \u00e1o t\u01a1 t\u1eb1m. Ki\u1ec3u may \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7u k\u1ef3 th\u00eau ren, nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn m\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt v\u00e0 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u00e2m t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n
M\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 b\u1ea1n t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y t\u00f4i xa nh\u00e0, xa \u0111\u1ea1i gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u00ec th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh. B\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea5n an t\u00f4i khi con l\u00ean bang l\u00ean s\u01b0\u1edfi, cho t\u00f4i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean q\u00fai b\u00e1u v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c ch\u1ee9ng b\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh, ngo\u00e0i l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u00e1c s\u0129. Ngo\u00e0i ra b\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u201cti\u1ebfp vi\u1ec7n\u201d cho t\u00f4i nh\u1eefng t\u00e3 l\u00f3t, kh\u0103n l\u00f3t n\u00f4i, \u00e1o qu\u1ea7n b\u00e9 s\u01a1 sinh, xe \u0111\u1ea9y tr\u1ebb em m\u00e0 b\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u1eef l\u1ea1i t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con ng\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc. B\u00e0 b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng \u00e1o qu\u1ea7n c\u0169 cho tr\u1ebb t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n l\u00e0 \u00e1o m\u1edbi v\u00ec ch\u00fang c\u00f3\u2026h\u01a1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u2026<\/p>\n
Ho\u00e1 ra t\u00e2m t\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 d\u00f9 \u0110\u00f4ng hay T\u00e2y \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau.<\/p>\n
Ch\u1eef t\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ch\u1eef kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u trong s\u1ef1 nu\u00f4i con!<\/p>\n
\u201cH\u01a1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u201d hai ch\u1eef \u1ea5y th\u1eadt \u1ea5m \u00e1p. H\u01a1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong s\u1ef1 tin c\u1ea9n, trong s\u1ef1 chung nhau g\u00ecn gi\u1eef, nu\u00f4i n\u1ea5ng \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, tinh t\u1ea5n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng phung ph\u00ed, kh\u00f4ng xa hoa. T\u00ecnh \u1ea5y d\u00ednh li\u1ec1n v\u1edbi t\u1eebng h\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u01a1m, t\u1eebng h\u01a1i \u1ea5m k\u1ebft t\u1ee5 t\u1eeb d\u00f2ng s\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, t\u1eeb c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 ch\u0103m nom tr\u00ecu m\u1ebfn th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi chung quanh. Th\u1eadt \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra \u00fd ngh\u0129a nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n \u1ea5y trong c\u00e1ch c\u00f9ng chung nhau nu\u00f4i n\u1ea5ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tha h\u01b0\u01a1ng.T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1eef nh\u1eefng t\u1ea5m t\u00e3 l\u00f3t \u1ea5y cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi chuy\u1ec1n l\u1ea1i cho b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 sinh n\u1edf sau t\u00f4i.<\/p>\n
M\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt th\u00ec nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 c\u0169 nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i m\u1edbi v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng, m\u1edbi v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 pha t\u1ea1p gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m pha ch\u1ebf ho\u00e1 h\u1ecdc, m\u00e0u s\u1eafc di\u00eam d\u00faa lo\u00e8 lo\u1eb9t ch\u1ec9 chu\u1ed9ng b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i. \u0110\u01b0\u1eddng kim m\u0169i ch\u1ec9 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i chi\u1ebfc \u00e1o, m\u1ed7i t\u1ea5m t\u1ea3 l\u00f3t c\u00f2n mang s\u1ef1 c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng thi\u1ebft tha c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi may ra \u00e1o, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 d\u1ee5ng t\u00e2m \u0111\u00f9m b\u1ecdc l\u1eabn nhau. Ni\u1ec1m vui c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a con h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0110\u1ee9c chia chung nh\u00e0 \u1edf v\u1edbi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i san s\u1ebb. Trong khi t\u00f4i c\u00f2n n\u1eb1m trong b\u1ec7nh vi\u1ec7n, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u1edf chung nh\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i lo d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda th\u1eadt s\u1ea1ch. Nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 s\u00e0n g\u1ed7 c\u0169 m\u00e0 t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 ai ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1nh b\u00f3ng, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u1eeba b\u1ee5i b\u1eb7m v\u1eeba m\u1ea5t th\u00ec gi\u1edd. V\u1eady m\u00e0 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 s\u1ebd b\u00f2 kh\u1eafp nh\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u00e0 \u0111i \u0111\u00e3 th\u00fac d\u1ee5c c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0110\u1ee9c c\u00f9ng nh\u00e0 x\u00fam nhau thu\u00ea m\u00e1y v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e1nh b\u00f3ng, s\u01a1n tr\u1ea7n nh\u00e0, treo n\u00f4i, su\u1ed1t c\u1ea3 tu\u1ea7n sau gi\u1edd l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 v\u00ec m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9! \u0110\u1ebfn khi t\u00f4i c\u00f9ng con tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 th\u00ec m\u1ecdi g\u00f3c nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1u s\u00e1ng b\u00f3ng v\u00e0 sau n\u00e0y b\u00e9 Mai Lan \u0111\u00e3 tho\u1ea3 th\u00edch b\u00f2 kh\u1eafp n\u01a1i.<\/p>\n
Mai Lan \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edfng h\u01a1i \u1ea5m t\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi chung quanh t\u1eeb l\u00fac m\u1edf m\u1eb3t ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. L\u00f2ng tri \u00e2n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, nay c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh thi\u00ean c\u1ed5, v\u1eabn d\u1ea1t d\u00e0o trong t\u00f4i m\u1ed7i khi nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng n\u0103m th\u00e1ng \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n
Th\u1eadp ni\u00ean 80 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 th\u1eadp ni\u00ean c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng b\u00e1o \u0111\u1ed9ng \u00f4 nhi\u1ec5m m\u00f4i tru\u1eddng m\u00f4i sinh tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m nh\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0110\u1ee9c (l\u00fac \u1ea5y l\u00e0 T\u00e2y \u0110\u1ee9c) l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng n\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean ti\u1ebfn trong ch\u00ednh s\u00e1ch m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00f4i sinh, kh\u1edfi t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng s\u00e1ng ki\u1ebfn c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. Ph\u00f2ng tr\u00e0o b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 m\u00f4i sinh ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ef1c ph\u1ea9m, th\u1ee9c \u0103n s\u1ea1ch, \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n ti\u00ean quy\u1ebft b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 s\u1ee9c kho\u1ebb. Nh\u1eefng s\u00e1ng ki\u1ebfn c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u1ec1 ch\u0103n nu\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng ph\u00e2n b\u00f3n ho\u00e1 h\u1ecdc, th\u1ee9c \u0103n s\u00fac v\u1eadt nh\u01b0 c\u1ecf, b\u1eafp, rau c\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng thu\u1ed1c tr\u1eeb s\u00e2u b\u1ecd \u2026, \u0111\u00e3 manh nha v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u1ea7n ch\u00fang h\u01b0\u1edfng \u1ee9ng. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u00ed th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp th\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u01b0u h\u01b0\u1edfng \u1ee9ng phong tr\u00e0o n\u00e0y. S\u1ef1 h\u01b0\u1edfng \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd tho\u1ea1t ti\u00ean b\u1ecb ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 \u201csnob\u201d, ki\u1ec3u ch\u01a1i tr\u1ed9i, tr\u01b0\u1edfng gi\u1ea3 tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed3ng qu\u00ea …. Nh\u1eefng s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ecdn l\u1ecdc n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1eaft ti\u1ec1n h\u01a1n th\u1ef1c ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ebf bi\u1ebfn th\u01b0\u1eddng, tuy nhi\u00ean nhu c\u1ea7u s\u1ed1ng s\u1ea1ch tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u1ebfn nay c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u1ea5p b\u00e1ch h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi nguy c\u01a1 t\u00e0n ph\u00e1 m\u00f4i sinh v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 v\u00f4 \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 v\u00f4 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ea3n xu\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n
Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng thu\u1ed9c t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp n\u00e0o, l\u1ea1i v\u1eeba \u0111i l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0i n\u0103m, ti\u1ec1n d\u00e0nh d\u1ee5m ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 bao l\u0103m, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a con m\u1edbi sinh, ch\u1ec9 mong mu\u1ed1n cho con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ee9c kho\u1ebb bao l\u00e2u b\u00e9 c\u00f2n n\u1eb1m trong tay m\u00ecnh. V\u00ec th\u1ebf ch\u00fang t\u00f4i nh\u1ecbn b\u1edbt v\u00e0i th\u1ee9 – nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i nh\u1ecbn kh\u00f4ng mua \u00e1o \u0111\u1eb9p! v\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u01b0\u01a1ng quy\u1ebft h\u01a1n ch\u1ed3ng – \u0111i t\u00ecm mua cho \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eefa t\u01b0\u01a1i c\u1ee7a gi\u1ed1ng b\u00f2 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i b\u1eb1ng c\u1ecf s\u1ea1ch, sau khi con d\u1ee9t s\u1eefa m\u1eb9. D\u00f9 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i ra ti\u1ec7m \u1ea5y c\u00f3 xa g\u1ea5p \u0111\u00f4i g\u1ea5p ba nh\u1eefng ti\u1ec7m g\u1ea7n nh\u00e0, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng l\u1eb7n l\u1ed9i \u0111i mua cho b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u1ed9t ng\u0169 c\u1ed1c c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a theo ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n s\u1ea1ch \u1ea5y. B\u00ecnh s\u1eefa c\u1ee7a Mai Lan g\u1ed3m s\u1eefa b\u00f2, b\u1ed9t ng\u0169 c\u1ed1c, m\u1eadt ong, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1eafng. T\u1eeb khi sinh ra cho \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac hai tu\u1ed5i, s\u1ef1 dinh d\u01b0\u1ee1ng c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u00e1c th\u1ee9 n\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u1ecdt hay \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1eafng, k\u1eb9o ng\u1ecdt \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u00e1nh kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng. \u0110\u1ebfn hai tu\u1ed5i b\u00e9 Mai Lan ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft \u0103n k\u1eb9o v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 ai d\u1ed7 ng\u1ecdt b\u00e9 b\u1eb1ng k\u1eb9o, \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00ec b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft k\u1eb9o l\u00e0 g\u00ec. Mai Lan \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u01b0ng chi\u1ec1u b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c tr\u00ecu m\u1ebfn, b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i d\u1ec5 nghe, b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 \u00e2n c\u1ea7n n\u01a1i t\u1eebng \u00e1nh m\u1eaft, b\u1eb1ng th\u1ee9c \u0103n do m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 ba ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00e0i \u00e9p, kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng k\u1eb9o ng\u1ecdt \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ed7 d\u00e0nh, \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00edn kh\u00f3c, b\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u00e9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i \u201cngon\u201d!<\/p>\n
Tuy nhi\u00ean ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 \u0103n u\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n khi \u0111\u1ea1i gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111o\u00e0n t\u1ee5. Mai Lan \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 2 tu\u1ed5i. M\u1eb9 t\u00f4i c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1c ch\u00e1u sang \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u01b0 t\u1ea1i \u0110\u1ee9c c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. Mai Lan \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng s\u1ef1 \u1ea5m \u00e1p c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1i gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i. Nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0103n u\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 l\u1ea1i ch\u1ecbu \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng t\u1eadp qu\u00e1n v\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i t\u1eeb Vi\u00eat nam th\u1eadp ni\u00ean 80, m\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt l\u00e0 th\u00edch k\u1eb9o t\u00e2y. C\u0169ng t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, \u201cc\u00e1i k\u1eb9o ng\u1ecdt\u201d c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i l\u00e0 th\u00fa vui m\u00e0 hai b\u00e0 ch\u00e1u ng\u00e0y ng\u00e0y t\u1ec9 t\u00ea v\u1edbi nhau, nh\u1eefng b\u00e1nh ng\u1ecdt, chips khoai t\u00e2y, b\u00e1nh r\u00e1n\u2026\u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eeb Vi\u1ec7t nam sang l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ecb c\u00e1m d\u1ed7, d\u0129 nhi\u00ean c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Mai Lan h\u01b0\u1edfng \u1ee9ng v\u00e0 l\u00e0 n\u1ed7i b\u1eadn t\u00e2m kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i. Nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1eef con ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00f4 nhi\u1ec5m \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i?<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ee9a con \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m ri\u00eang, n\u00f3 ra \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi chung quanh nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t chu\u1ed7i nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean qu\u1ea5n qu\u00fdt, trong \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh n\u00f3, b\u1eb1ng tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c, b\u1eb1ng nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi chung quanh, quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u0103n gi\u1eef \u0111\u1ec3 con \u0111\u1eebng t\u00e9 \u0111au, ng\u00e3 n\u1eb7ng. N\u1ebfu n\u00f3 chia s\u1ebb ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i, n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi chung quanh, v\u00e0 kho\u1ebb m\u1ea1nh s\u1ed1ng, th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean d\u00f9ng qui lu\u1eadt qu\u00e1 kh\u1eaft khe \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e8 n\u1eb7ng t\u00e2m tr\u00ed n\u00f3, g\u00e2y m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m. N\u1ebfu n\u00f3 khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft th\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng d\u1eb1n v\u1eb7t xem \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m kh\u00f4ng th\u1ebf tha th\u1ee9. Trong chu\u1ed7i nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh, th\u00ec b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn khai ph\u00f3ng cho \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201ct\u1ef1 do\u201d kh\u1ecfi m\u1ecdi ch\u1ea5p ch\u1eb7t gi\u00e1o \u0111i\u1ec1u, kh\u01b0 kh\u01b0 d\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n th\u1eafng, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi v\u1edbi ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1eadt quan tr\u1ecdng cho ho\u00e0 b\u00ecnh n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n
Bi\u1ebft bao tr\u0103n tr\u1edf, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn nh\u00ecn \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u00e9 Mai Lan trong t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n l\u00e0 c\u00e1i k\u1eb9o m\u00e0 b\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1ea5u \u0111\u00e0ng sau l\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh cho Mai Lan. V\u1edbi ngo\u1ea1i, Mai Lan \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc n\u00f3i ti\u1ebfng Hu\u1ebf th\u1eadt nhu\u1ea7n nhuy\u1ec5n, g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 gi\u1ecdng Hu\u1ebf \u0111\u1eb7c s\u1ec7t. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd em l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 ti\u00eau bi\u1ec3u l\u1edbn l\u00ean b\u1eb1ng hai ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 lo \u00e2u. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 th\u1ea5m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m t\u1ef1 do v\u01b0\u1ee3t h\u00e0ng r\u00e0o ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c ch\u1ee9ng trong ch\u00ednh t\u00e2m kh\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i quan ni\u1ec7m r\u1eb1ng, t\u1eeb khi m\u1edbi sinh ra cho \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac hai tu\u1ed5i, \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eafp m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i n\u1ec1n tinh th\u1ea7n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecu m\u1ebfn bao dung v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng dinh d\u01b0\u1ee1ng th\u00ec kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec ngo\u1ea1i lai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00f4 ng\u00e3 b\u00e0n ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh. Cho n\u00ean nh\u1eefng g\u00ec Mai Lan h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hay b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i hay tranh \u0111\u1ea5u nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, th\u01b0\u1eddng xem s\u1ef1 can thi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng cho \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft li\u1ec7t c\u1eaft \u0111\u1ee9t m\u1ecdi \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a th\u00ea h\u1ec7 tr\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t cho m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 ngo\u00e0i dinh d\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng, m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng (communication<\/em>) kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 qua l\u1eddi n\u00f3i, \u00e2m thanh ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u1eed ch\u1ec9, c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 s\u1ed1ng, ngay c\u1ea3 n\u00e9t m\u1eb7t, s\u1eafc di\u1ec7n, h\u01a1i th\u1edf, kh\u00f4ng gian s\u1ed1ng, n\u00f3i chung, ba y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, di\u1ec7n m\u1ea1o th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ea7n ho\u00e0 quy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nhau v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 trong m\u1ed7i t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u00f5 s\u1ef1 ho\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec7u l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u1eadt quan tr\u1ecdng cho s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4n l\u1edbn c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a con.<\/p>\nChia s\u1ebb quan \u0111i\u1ec3m gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u201cph\u1ea3n quy\u1ec1n uy\u201d, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi tham chi\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e1i \u201cnh\u00e2n t\u00ednh h\u1ecdc\u201d (Anthroposophie<\/em>) c\u1ee7a R. Steiner, v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ed1i chi\u1ebfu tinh th\u1ea7n khai s\u00e1ng T\u00e2y ph\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 khai s\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ed1n ng\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt gi\u00e1o, t\u00f4i \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch \u201cn\u00f3i v\u1edbi con,\u201d ngay t\u1eeb khi con ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee3t th\u1ea5y tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i, v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi m\u1ecdc hay b\u00f3ng tr\u0103ng r\u1ecdi l\u00ean t\u01b0\u1eddng, l\u00e1 v\u00e0ng r\u1ee5ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u00e2n, tho\u00e1ng gi\u00f3 bay qua, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u g\u00e2y ch\u00fa \u00fd cho con \u0111\u1ec3 con nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng tham d\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn. T\u1ea5m v\u1ea3i th\u00eau b\u01b0\u1edbm, hoa, chim, c\u00e1, c\u1ecf d\u1ea1i treo trong ph\u00f2ng l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n cho em t\u1eadp n\u00f3i v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt v\u1edbi v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n k\u00e8m theo. L\u00ean ba em \u0111\u00e3 thu\u1ed9c l\u00e0u l\u00e0u \u201cc\u00e1i c\u00f2 c\u00e1i v\u1ea1c c\u00e1i n\u00f4ng\u201d, \u201ccon c\u00f2 m\u00e0y \u0111i \u0103n \u0111\u00eam\u201d, \u201cc\u00f4ng cha nh\u01b0 n\u00fai Th\u00e1i S\u01a1n\u2026.\u201d Em c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tham d\u1ef1 \u2026 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi\u201d\u2026 l\u1edbn (m\u00e0 ch\u01b0a l\u1edbn) trong m\u1ecdi bu\u1ed5i g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 ngo\u00e0i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, tr\u1eeb nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i \u1ed3n \u00e0o, \u0111\u1ea7y kh\u00f3i thu\u1ed1c \u00f4 nhi\u1ec5m m\u00f4i sinh. T\u1eeb l\u00fac n\u1eb1m n\u00f4i cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi \u0111i h\u1ecdc, Mai Lan \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eb9 \u0111em theo v\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc trong gi\u1edd d\u1ea1y m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng qu\u1ea5y r\u1ea7y- n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0110\u1ee9c l\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc hi\u1ebfm tr\u1ebb con nh\u01b0ng tr\u1ebb con l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau m\u1ebfn v\u00e0 qu\u00ed tr\u1ecdng – nh\u1eefng kho\u00e1 thi\u1ec1n d\u00e0nh cho sinh vi\u00ean th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 con, c\u0169ng nghi\u00eam trang nh\u00ecn v\u00e0 b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh im l\u1eb7ng (tuy kh\u00f4ng l\u00e2u) c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n\u0110\u1ee9a con \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c tham d\u1ef1 trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4ng cho con \u0111i h\u1ecdc tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u201cWalddorfschule\u201d (theo ch\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a R. Steiner, ph\u00e1i nh\u00e2n t\u00ednh h\u1ecdc) nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 ch\u1ed1ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ph\u1ea3n quy\u1ec1n uy \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m, m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ch\u1ecdn l\u1ecdc n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. T\u00f4i quan ni\u1ec7m Mai Lan c\u1ea7n \u201c\u1edf gi\u1eefa\u201d c\u00e1c t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean, c\u00f9ng ganh \u0111ua b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 t\u1eeb m\u1ecdi t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. S\u1ef1 qu\u00e2n b\u00ecnh t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01a1n l\u00e0 cho con c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 \u201cg\u00e0 n\u00f2i\u201d m\u1ea5t th\u0103ng b\u1eb1ng n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i trong l\u1ed3ng k\u00edn, c\u00f3 t\u00ednh phi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i (Walddorfschule sau n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed5i ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 n\u00e0y c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p, c\u00e1c b\u1ed9 m\u00f4n th\u00edch \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u01a1n). \u00cdt nhi\u1ec1u, em \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trang b\u1ecb m\u1ed9t \u201ct\u00e2m kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t\u201d ngay trong \u201cchim c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e0n, ng\u1ef1a c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n,\u201d \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi ph\u00e1t huy n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 truy nh\u1eadn t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean c\u00f9ng tu\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n
Tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i chuy\u1ec7n \u201ctruy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng\u201d nh\u01b0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00eau tr\u00ean. C\u0169ng ch\u00ednh nh\u1edd \u201ck\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n\u201d m\u00e0 Mai Lan theo m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng lu\u00f4n qu\u00ea h\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m l\u1ea1 k\u1ef3 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng (Mitgefuehl<\/em>). Nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 th\u0103m Hu\u1ebf v\u1edbi m\u1eb9, Mai Lan c\u00f3 d\u1ecbp nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y con tr\u00e2u \u201cthi\u1ec7t\u201d \u0111ang \u0103n \u1edf c\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ed3ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i c\u00e0y trong chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ed5 t\u00edch \u201ct\u00fai kh\u00f4n c\u1ee7a lo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u201d\u2026con t\u00f4m s\u1ed1ng thay v\u00ec \u201cs\u1ef1 t\u00edch \u201ccon t\u00f4m v\u00e0ng\u201d\u2026.<\/p>\nKh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi nhau nh\u1eefng m\u1eabu chuy\u1ec7n vu v\u01a1 nh\u01b0 trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n
Kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh Vi\u1ec7t nam lo s\u1ee3 con kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i gi\u1ecfi ti\u1ebfng \u0110\u1ee9c n\u00ean tr\u00e1nh n\u00f3i ti\u1ebfng Vi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi con, Mai Lan \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe thanh \u00e2m ti\u1ebfng Vi\u1ec7t ngay t\u1eeb khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra, b\u1edfi v\u00ec bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng sau n\u00e0y khi theo h\u1ecdc tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110\u1ee9c, em s\u1ebd kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i t\u1eadp chu\u1ea9n ti\u1ebfng Vi\u1ec7t, tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y ra cho c\u00e1c em nh\u1ecf Vi\u1ec7t nam kh\u00e1c. Quanh em h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u n\u00f3i ti\u1ebfng \u0110\u1ee9c, n\u00ean ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ti\u00ean quy\u1ebft n\u00f3i ti\u1ebfng Vi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi con.<\/p>\n
C\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i con, t\u00f4i ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec, kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 ph\u00ed hay m\u1ea5t th\u00ec gi\u1edd – ch\u1ec9 s\u1ee3 e kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 – chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2 v\u1edbi con, t\u1eadp cho con \u201cnh\u00ecn\u201d, ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 trau d\u1ed3i d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n cho con quan s\u00e1t m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c chung quanh, t\u1eadp l\u00fd lu\u1eadn v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7, kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u00e1p l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng v\u00e0o tri gi\u00e1c quan s\u00e1t, \u00f3c suy \u0111o\u00e1n t\u1eeb \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n cho \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p, n\u00f3i th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt, v\u00ec bi\u1ebft s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t b\u1eb1ng v\u0169 l\u1ef1c, kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i. V\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 t\u1eadp t\u00ednh th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi, th\u01b0\u01a1ng lo\u00e0i v\u1eadt. Mai Lan d\u1ec5 m\u1ee7i l\u00f2ng v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng lo\u00e0i v\u1eadt \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean. L\u00ean hai em \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng cho m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1eadp con mu\u1ed7i c\u1eafn m\u00ecnh, s\u1ee3 t\u1ed9i con mu\u1ed7i!<\/p>\n
T\u1ef1 do, t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7, \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 k\u1ef7 c\u01b0\u01a1ng, Mai Lan th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 r\u00f5 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t m\u1ee9c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, sau t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi l\u00fd lu\u1eadn ph\u1ea3i tr\u00e1i, cha m\u1eb9 mang bi\u1ec3u t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t m\u1ecdi tranh c\u00e3i b\u1eb1ng v\u00f4 ng\u00f4n th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1eb1ng k\u1ef7 l\u1ee5\u00e2t. S\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n b\u1ecb b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c do quy\u1ec1n uy t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. T\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t huy v\u00e0 n\u1ea9y n\u1edf s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o sau khi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng b\u00e0y t\u1ecf \u00fd ki\u1ebfn, c\u1ea3m ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 \u01b0\u1edbc nguy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 qua ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, qua th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u1ee9ng x\u1eed trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n
C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n trong m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m h\u1ed9i nh\u1eadp t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng tu\u1ec7. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3 t\u1ea1o, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00fd trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, s\u1ef1 k\u00ednh tr\u00ean nh\u01b0\u1eddng d\u01b0\u1edbi. V\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i theo truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh Vi\u1ec7t nam, h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn cho con bi\u1ebft tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0, th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n
Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, em \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eb9 \u201ck\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n\u201d cho nghe v\u1ec1 t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi, n\u00e9t ch\u1ea5m ph\u00e1 di\u1ec7n m\u1ea1o, s\u1edf th\u00edch\u2026 S\u1ef1 l\u00e0m quen trong tr\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb l\u1ea1, kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, e d\u00e8 tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u01b0a quen, ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m th\u00e2n thu\u1ed9c, tr\u00ecu m\u1ebfn, quy\u1ebfn luy\u1ebfn v\u1edbi m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Su\u1ed1t 15 n\u0103m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi B\u00e0, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ec1 c\u1ea1nh t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng hi sinh kh\u00f4ng qu\u1ea3n ng\u1ea1i, ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 si\u00eang n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a B\u00e0 lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u00edch cho con c\u00e1i trong b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t n\u00e0o. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n l\u00fd lu\u1eadn (nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i \u0111ang l\u00fd lu\u1eadn), Mai Lan v\u00e0 c\u00e1c anh ch\u1ecb em \u0111\u00e3 xem \u201cm\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh\u201d c\u1ee7a B\u00e0 h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i. Khi B\u00e0 c\u1ea7n \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0 l\u0169 nh\u1ecf b\u1ecf t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m theo B\u00e0 d\u1eb7n. Th\u1eadt \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat \u1ea5y trong m\u1ed9t c\u0103n nh\u00e0 Vi\u1ec7t nam \u1edf ph\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u1eddi T\u00e2y.<\/p>\n
Ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng Vi\u1ec7t nam kh\u00e1c T\u00e2y \u1edf \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y?<\/p>\n
T\u1ef1 s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tri\u1ec1n mi\u00ean v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0110\u00f4ng T\u00e2y nh\u01b0ng s\u1ebd v\u01b0\u1ee3t kh\u1ecfi gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 n\u00e0y. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 trong m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch sau.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Chia s\u1ebb quan \u0111i\u1ec3m gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u201cph\u1ea3n quy\u1ec1n uy\u201d, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi tham chi\u1ebfu t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e1i \u201cnh\u00e2n t\u00ednh h\u1ecdc\u201d… v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed1i chi\u1ebfu tinh th\u1ea7n khai s\u00e1ng T\u00e2y ph\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 khai s\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ed1n ng\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt gi\u00e1o, t\u00f4i \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch \u201cn\u00f3i v\u1edbi con,\u201d ngay t\u1eeb khi con ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":910,"featured_media":22311,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"h5ap_radio_sources":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[30,279,197],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22307","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-chuyen-de","category-phu-nu-gioi-tinh","category-quan-diem"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22307","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/910"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22307"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22307\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":54241,"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22307\/revisions\/54241"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/22311"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22307"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22307"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/damau.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22307"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
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